Family frustrations. What would you say to yours that you really can’t in RL?

[Kroptopbelly]

I can’t even say anything on MN because I would be torn limb from limb, that’s how bad my frustrations & opinions are.

I do feel like an evil cow yes but good God.
What would you say to yours?

MIL - your lifestyle is incredibly unhealthy and you need to sort yourself out before you put yourself in an early grave. The only reason DH is not in the same state as you is because you encouraged him not to learn to drive in case he got into a crash, so had to cycle 15 miles a day.

And no, I will not bring "your little man" to see you 3 days after my C section. Get off your lazy arse and either walk the 20 mins or get a taxi to ours.
And also, we've encouraged you to buy out your home for the ridiculously low sum the HA offered, but no. Please believe me when I laugh off your "jokes" about moving in with us when you retire. Over my dead body.

DM - I know I've always been a disappointment to you, but please try a little bit harder to hide it.

Uncle - you're a lazy cunt and my DGran should not be spending her 80's worrying about who will be paying for your lifestyle when she dies. You scumbag.

1. Mum, why couldn’t you just be there for your children rather than chasing/siding with your latest male flame. We weren’t ‘ enough ‘
2. Sister, can’t believe we (siblings)weren’t enough to stay here for and not move far,far away. I miss you so much don’t think I will ever get over you going. There is a theme here isn’t there 😢

Still smoking 40 a day despite worrying about money since dad died. You’ve never made any attempt to get a job to make any money or your own, having relied on dad for everything. Im now left feeling responsible for you even though you’re old enough and in good enough health to look after yourself but are far too lazy and always blame everything on dad. I lost all respect for you years ago and feel like your parent. To my MIL you’re very lucky we still speak to you at all after your ridiculous and hurtful comments. Time spent with you is so tiring because you’re just so high and mighty and you love nothing better than putting people down.

Stop drinking or do me a favour and leave.

Me taking money that was left to me 10 years ago and you hid isn’t getting a gift. Stop telling people you bought my house, I bought it, then you generously gave me what was mine because I was deemed worthy once I had a suitable job and home. And stop telling people dh is a temporary boyfriend and has no share in the house you bought!