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Relationship advice please 🙏

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Mae08 · 06/03/2021 00:02

Hey!
Just after some advice if anyone has any please, on how to let go of things and trust? My partner didn't treat me particularly well in our first few months together, due to a difficult ex he had, however with perseverance we have now been together 15 months, during these 15 months there has been a few occasions where I've found out he has lied, nothing mega but enough, but the reason has always been the same "he wanted to save me from upset and didn't want it to cause arguments between us" a couple have been to do with his Ex causing trouble and he wanted to protect me from it so he felt lying about it would do that!
What my issue is, now its all hit me and I can't seem to stop thinking about it, wondered if anyone had been in same situation and had any advice on how to let it go?
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OP posts:
Aquamarine1029 · 06/03/2021 00:06

My partner didn't treat me particularly well in our first few months together

Come on now. You should have ended it then. He's a liar, to boot. Get rid of him.

PomBearWithoutHerOFRS · 06/03/2021 05:45

He "didn't treat you particularly well" because he chose not to treat you particularly well!
His ex has NOTHING to do with how he treats you.
A relationship shouldn't need either person to "persevere"

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