How to deal with difficult wedding guest

[AliceWonderland88]

Hi Mumnetters,

My Fiance and I are due to get married this year and there is a specific guest that I am concerned about. I am not a hateful person in the slightest but I do choose not to have certain people in my life and my Fiance's brother's wife is one of them. She spits nothing but hateful remarks and has the ability to ruin everyone's day wherever she goes. I have only seen her a number of times and she has managed to bring me to tears every time. I honestly do not want her to come but if she isn't coming then my Fiance's brother won't come either and that would break his heart. How do I cope with her on the day? I want to enjoy it but she is determined to spoil it already. What should I do? Any advice would be very much appreciated

You might want to report your thread to MN and have it moved to a more appropriate topic.

This is the coronavirus topic and lots of people have it permanently hidden or only dip in from time to time.

You tell all your friends and family you can trust to build an invisible wall around you.
Anytime she pipes up one of them deals with her.
You are polite you have to circulate, you are the bride, you generally only get 5 minutes with everyone anyway.

Tell you friends. Keep her away from you without it looking like they are keeping her away from you.

You were told not to marry this man in your other thread here where you talk about the demands his family was making on you.