Ex-friend just told me...

[Letsallscreamatthesistene]

...that she distanced herself from me because I didnt dance enough at her wedding and didnt seem happy enough. I was happy, I just dont particularly like dancing and much prefer chatting to people at the bar etc. Its caught me totally off guard. Is this even a thing?

FYI the wedding was pre-covid. Im well over her now, but the reasoning has baffled me a bit.

Well, she saved you the hassle of a Christmas card!

Hey ho!

My wedding day was a total blur! Imagine noticing that! Did it say “dancing compulsory” on the invitation?

@Awwlookatmybabyspider

Fuck her. The stupid entitled spoiled Princess.

^ Or this, this is good advice too

Tell her you will take dance lessons and practice a happy face in time for her next wedding

sorry to laugh but it is kinda funny! Are you bemused op? What did you say in reply? (sorry if I missed it).

Some of these replies have me laughing!

Although im glad to see im not the only one who doesnt dance and has ruined the wedding!

Imagine spending your wedding day monitoring how much a guest dances or how happy they “seem”.?

I’m worried about how happy she was on her own wedding day that she spent any time at all on this. She seems weirdly competitive and a bit mad.

change her name to Godzilla on your phone and be done with it. (She isn’t a bride anymore so a Tokyo destroying monster is appropriate!)

My husband never dances
I wonder if that means we're not really married

If you had danced she'd have complained you were an attention-seeker and tried to upstage her.

@Nekoness

“What a relief to find out it’s not me, it’s you”

I love this. So very true.

Send her a grip for her anniversary

Yes she is being ridiculous. I did find my self distancing from a friend who kicked up a fuss about me not inviting her then BF to my wedding during the day and saying she wouldn't come if we didn't. So I invited him and they left straight after the food saying she had a christening to go to the day ( was a noon wedding so they left about 3pm).
She then put on facebook that they had gone to a local attraction the next day before this christening they went to!

I hardly danced at my own wedding, no chance of me doing it at someone else's! I think you're well rid OP, she sounds ridiculous.

Incredibly petty, not a 'friend' worth having in my opinion.....

So is this Long Bridezilla, like Long COVID?

After-effects linger for months or longer and you’re still not yourself even after the virus is no longer detectable in your body?