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Do I take the job or duck out?

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sergeantmajor · 23/02/2021 03:51

I am a freelancer and recently took on a project where I was way out of my depth. I suffered terribly with crippling anxiety but eventually triumphed. Now I'm facing it again.

I applied for a new freelance role but in the course of the interview it became clear to me that it wasn't quite my area of expertise. I've been given the role but now I fear I won't be able to deliver.

Unlike the last job, I don't think I can triumph here and if I mess up and reveal my ignorance it will hamper my chance of getting work in the future from this source. I just remember the extreme misery of the last task when I didn't know what I was doing.

I'm game to step outside my comfort zone but this feels like a step too far. It's not just a question of imposter syndrome it's more like actually not knowing what I'm doing.

Do I back out asap? And if so, do I admit why truthfully, or invent a face-saving excuse?

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ColdCottage · 23/02/2021 03:55

I'd be honest, explain your concerns at let them decide. The stress isn't worth it either way and the risk of it fails is too damaging.

Trust your gut, be open and honest and go from there.

sergeantmajor · 23/02/2021 04:10

Thanks @ColdCottage - wise words

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ColdCottage · 23/02/2021 09:44

Good luck. I hope it goes well.

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