I will try to keep this brief - moved back to a small town in the UK 11 years ago because DM was having health problems. I bought a house in that town when I found a job one county over. Now mum has died, and I am helping my 78 yo step dad to adjust to living on his own. I have tried really hard in this town, but it is very small and I have struggled to meet people- I have made some friends, but not very many. There are limited things to do that I like. I have even had trouble finding voluntary work that fits into my schedule. I am realizing how much I dont like it where I live. I am worried about affording housing if I move, as it is pretty cheap here, and finding another job as I am mid 50s. And my poor DSD would be left with my DS as his only support, who is very reluctant to do anything for anyone except herself. He has already said he doesnt want to move. I just feel so down and dont know what to do.