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Completely random question: Do you think Hollywood Actors stay 'closeted' these days?

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ChocolateSantaisthebestkind · 16/02/2021 14:59

I have just finished reading the biography of Rock Hudson's wife and it just got me thinking about whether Hollywood stars today would feel the need to do the same thing? I know Elliot Paige came out and was well received, so just wondered if 'beards' are still a thing these days? Myself, I have to say the SO of a leading actor would not change my liking or view of them as attractive (you're unlikely ever to date them anyway, so why would audiences care) I have to say it would make me think less of them if they engaged in a cover relationship, because I would be annoyed they would think their audience would be so narrow minded. What are your thoughts?

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TheSpottedZebra · 16/02/2021 19:09

Will Like Evan's get more leading man roles in Hollywood though? A big movie for the Chinese market?

I'd like to think so, but probably not.

VikingLady · 16/02/2021 19:10

Remember the fuss about Elsa in Frozen being not gay but not visibly straight, because that was the best Disney could do and still sell the film across the Bible Belt and abroad? And she's not even real.

TheSpottedZebra · 16/02/2021 19:10

I did not put that apostrophe there Shock

bonfireheart · 16/02/2021 19:21

I do think it does hold actors back cos producers are worried about the reaction. I've followed the career of Jonathan Bailey for years(plays Anthony in Bridgerton) he's a great actor and singer, wins awards for his stage acting but never really spoken about for his TV work, am glad he is getting the attention he so deserves.

Clymene · 16/02/2021 19:26

Let's face it, it's easier for women to come out because so many men have hot lesbian fantasies that it's not a huge issue. But gay men have a much harder time. While casting directors are frequently female, most directors are male and they have the ultimate say.

Thewinterofdiscontent · 16/02/2021 19:42

But I think the point is theatre and acting doesn’t need people to come out. It’s just accepted within and the audience is just something rose.

peak2021 · 16/02/2021 20:30

I'm sure some do, but as they are not 'out' we probably don't know how many do.

Carycy · 16/02/2021 21:22

With Elsa haven’t people just assumed she is gay because there is no male love interest? As if a woman can’t possibly have an interesting purpose/ storyline without a love story.
Personally I think they pushed the subtly gay themes in the second film because of the way she caught on as a gay icon.
I never got that vibe in the first film. I just thought it was nice to have a storyline with a woman that didn’t focus on a man.

partyatthepalace · 16/02/2021 21:56

@Quirrelsotherface

I think it's changing but very slowly. Loads of leading men in Hollywood are rumoured to be gay, as above it's assumed they won't have the selling power if they aren't seen as a heterosexual heartthrob. Unfortunately I do kind of get it as I don't think a connection between a male and female actor would be the same if one was gay in real life.

Having said that I was surprised to read that the eldest Bridgerton brother is played by an openly gay actor..he really did play that part well and had gorgeous chemistry with his female co-star!

Um well, he’s an actor PP, so why wouldn’t he be convincing?!? also see say Andrew Scott and Phoebe WB in Fleabag (he’s gay), or Aidan Gillan and his male co-stars in queer as folk (none of them were gay)....
PicsInRed · 16/02/2021 22:02

Leo DiCaprio reportedly has a long term male "friend", they've been papped behaving like any affectionate old married couple, it's apparently one of the openest secrets in Hollywood.

Timpeall · 16/02/2021 22:06

@Clymene

Let's face it, it's easier for women to come out because so many men have hot lesbian fantasies that it's not a huge issue. But gay men have a much harder time. While casting directors are frequently female, most directors are male and they have the ultimate say.
I don't think it's massively easier for Hollywood lesbians tbh. Maybe a bit, but not much. There's Jodie Foster, Kristen Stewart, Sarah Paulson but I can't think of anyone else.
Susie477 · 16/02/2021 22:17

Ask yourself how many big-name Hollywood actors are openly gay, then ask yourself what proportion of men who work in the performing arts generally are gay. Compare and contrast the two.

Then you have your answer.

From a commercial perspective, the closeting is understandable. Hollywood wants to sell its product to global audiences, and while attitudes to gay people have progressed massively in western Europe, Canada, blue-state America etc much of the rest of the world is still stuck a very long way behind.

Melange99 · 16/02/2021 22:30

I suppose when you get a male romantic lead, the film company want the women in the audience to have the fantasy that he would fall in love with her, the character played and the actor merged. If you know the actor is gay, so you have no chance (like you would anyway!) you are less likely to buy into that fantasy. It's just about money and what sells. So, it's not about homophobia but about how much the straight female audience buys into the fantasy. The gay male audience would of course be fine with it, but the female straight audience is bigger.

BTW, my fantasy days are over, I don't care if they are gay or straight. I am not interested in any of 'em.

PatchworkElmer · 16/02/2021 22:38

Yes, I absolutely think it’s still going on.

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