In light of my recent experience I recommend:
Record the assessment and DO NOT tell them. If you get refused then you can quote back what was actually said word for word in the mandertory reconsideration/appeal. The assessor does not record it.
When the assessment ends request that a copy of the assessors report is sent directly to you as it will save you time later if you go to man recon. The
If a question sounds off or unclear ask the assessor to repeat it and always ask exactly what they mean by an unclear question
Make it very, very clear if your child is incapable of answering a question and why.
If your child is distressed or upset then make it very clear that this is happening - a lot.
If you are called earlier than your appointment time then you do have the right to request that they call at the correct time and that you are not refusing to take the call but you are entitled to be 'prepared ' at the appointment time. You do not have to hold until you ready. Record this interaction as you can be accused of refusing the call so be clear on how early the call is and that you are not ready. Being called early can put you on the back foot and makes you feel panicky and unprepared but if it's only 5 minutes then let it go if you're ready and waiting.
If you need to deal with something regarding the claimant during the assessment (like getting them a drink or dealing with distress) then request a pause while you deal with an issue and then resume but make sure the assessor repeats the last question.
If you're unsure of anything then ask the assessor to repeat it. It's not your problem if they have another interview. The assessor should tell you who they are and what they are medically qualified for (nurse, doctor, physio etc) at the start of the assessment - if they don't then ask as they should tell you automatically and if they refuse then ask for it to be noted on their report.The
Keep replies factual and relevant and watch out for the assessors questions following no logical order and jumping about as this technique is designed to keep you unfocused and off balance.
Hope this helps. We're currently going to appeal for my DC17 and the assessors report was twisted and out right lies.