I've always got on well with my boss, she's told me she considers me a friend, we've talked about relationship issues etc. She can be hard work, she admits this. I had a promotion recently and for a few weeks couldn't get anything right as far as she was concerned. We talked things through, she was having a rough time, we ended the chat on really good terms.
Since then she has hardly spoken to me. I can't get her to discuss any projects, I barely get a hello, she doesn't reply to messaged. She has turned all of her attention onto another colleague.
Our kids would quite often zoom together of a weekend, she won't respond to an invite on her daughter's behalf at the moment.
I just can't work out what I did (if anything) I have a tendency to blame myself for everything and always think that I am wrong but even I'm not sure it's me here. I just feel totally rejected and humiliated.
I used to love going in to work, it was a really fun place to be but at the moment I am dreading it. If I had done something I'd rather she just told me so I could sort it out!
She doesn't have many friends and she kept telling me she really valued me and then I get completely ignored.
I'm too old to be playing silly games, I'm just embarrassed that I'm being treated like this by someone I really like and admire.