I'm not 'over' the man who raped me. This makes me sad as he likely doesn't give a shit.

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Sad tonight.

Can't pretend 😭

I'm here for you too OP. I care. I was raped 10 years ago by my first "boyfriend." The years after were so so hard. I can't understand your exact situation, but I can empathise a little with how you might be feeling. I still think about it every now and then, and there are some bad times, but I have found that overall time has been kind. It doesn't define you, don't let his actions define you in any way.

You are so much stronger than you realise.

Thank you,

I just feel so stupid for being led like a lamb to the slaughter. Wish I'd had more contentious parents and a shit load more common sense.

I'm so sorry you were hurt too

I’m sorry, OP. It’s a club with far too many of us in it.

For what it’s worth, it has never even occurred to me to forgive mine. Vengeance is equally impossible as he’s dead.

I wish mine would say sorry.

I'd forgive him.

Isn't that silly?

Still, I would. I'm sorry yours is dead, in fact, maybe I'm not. Ass hole for hurting you,