Is it something you either have or your haven't? Can you work on willpower? Has anyone went from having none to having loads?
I don't stick to anything and I'm sick of it. I'm the queen of self sabotage and it pisses me off. It pisses me off that it's me doing it to myself. I would get annoyed at someone like me.
Diets - I really want to lose weight, not a significant amount but a stone and a half/2 stone would very much increase my confidence and make me look and feel better. Never manage to stick to whatever diet for long before I convince myself I deserve x, y and z. Then I feel shit.
Wine - Just like the above. If I've had a bad run on the old vino I swear off it for a few weeks but never lasts. Just takes someone pre-Covid to suggest one and I'm there. But I also look at my wine belly and hate myself.
Hobbies, books. Never keep up or finish.
If my mum decides to do something or give up something for a period of time that's what she does and nothing sways her.
I tell myself it's because I mostly live some so have no support or anyone to answer to and get bored easily but that's a cop out.
Any books out there that helped you with willpower (that I'll hopefully finish!)?