Boring, sorry, but what time do your DC go to bed?

[Thepilotlightsgoneout]

DH and I can’t agree and are arguing. What time does your 11 year old go to bed on a school night? As in, what time is lights out?

Dd11 usually gets ready for bed around 8.30 and sleep for 9

Dc is 11 bed is 8pm sun to thur
Fri and sat 9 pm
Of dc is being naughty gaming time and bed times are reduced for a day or so. Seems to work

DS2 is 11, upstairs between 9 and 9:15, lights off 9:30.

12 year old / Yr7

Pre covid school closures 9.30pm / up at 6.30am
Currently 10pm / Up at 7am

10.30pm at Fri/Sat. Occasionally 11pm
Wakes up around 9am

My 8yo and 9yo have lights out at 8.30 on a school night and 9pm at the weekend. They go upstairs about an hour before that as I read for around half and hour and then they read to themselves.