Anyone to scared to tell partner they are pregnant

[Jayjay122]

Hey just a quick one found out im pregnant with baby number four totally unplanned not on anything and tried to go by my cycle which apparently I’m useless at because I got it so wrong my partner will not like this
Got a one year old and 6 year old and 10 year old feeling pretty foolish and can’t bring my self to tell my partner have no one to talk to and just need to vent anyone been in same situation?

Surprised you don't have more replies, I was bricking it telling mine even though it was planned! In the end he was fine with it and yours will come round in the end too, good luck!

Surely he won't be too surprised if you aren't using any contraception?

What are you expecting his reaction to be that makes you fearful ?

So many alarm bells ringing here

• what kind of relationship do you have that you are scared of him? What do you think he's going to do?
• if you didn't want anther baby why didn't you use contraception? This is on both of you.
• you have choices, you don't have to go ahead with the pregnancy if you don't want to.

Why would it be a surprise if you aren't using anything? Tracking your cycle isn't foolproof. You sound scared of his reaction and that is the biggest problem. I hope you have someone irl that you can talk to for support.

Did he know you were trying to time it? If he did then surely he shouldn't be too surprised. It really isn't a method for those who don't want a baby.

Did he know you weren’t on any contraception?
If yes- then this is on both of you. Unprotected sex = babies

This has blown out of proportion he’s a fantastic partner you took it wrong way I was just worrying to much he wasn’t at all surprise he actually knew something was wrong I just over worry I’m terrible at it but he’s the one person that gets me

I’m not pregnant anyway I was actually pretty accurate with my cycle always am was a false alarm

If your partner had sex with you without taking precautions against pregnancy himself then he is as much to 'blame' for this as you are. If he gives you a hard time, then he is a massive dick.

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