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I do deserve to be treated better? or should I ask what I did wrong?

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FlyGirlAirbus · 03/02/2021 20:54

I matched with a guy who hasn't had the best past relationships. He told me a lot about his life within two days but then suddenly stopped. and then invited me for a friendly friends dinner where he spent time with another woman throughout. Based on his remarks of how men have to do all the work n he's tired of pampering women, I figured I can be the one to make the moves. Well I tried everything, n finally on the day of meet he wasn't well. so I went in to his place anyway to keep company. He Swiped on tinder in front of me and told me that those women were no good. he was good to me the next day but again he started the same shit of not picking a time n day to meet. I told him we'd go at his pace, no tags, no strings. Still he went with "most probably Friday, yeah". which totally pissed me off and I told him that "Im not sorry for my outburst. U wanted to match with those women on tinder, when someone good is actually right in front of u wen u r sick! I was truly into u. I deserve to be treated better. So fuck it all. Im tapping out." Did I come on too strong? or was he just a class A jerk? Cuz he was upfront about his feelings, etc. so I feel like he was on the clear and I made mistakes. im just trying to figure it out for any future matches.

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Embarrasedaf · 03/02/2021 20:56

He sounded like a loser from the start

You shouldn’t have been treated that way, but at the same time I think you gave him more time/effort than he deserved. As soon as he started bitching about his exes and how women do no work etc I would have made excuses to leave.

I can’t believe you stayed after he was using tinder in front of you

FlyGirlAirbus · 03/02/2021 21:05

@Embarrasedaf Idk what I was thinking. He slid his life story (sad one) into the chat so easily. and kept saying its made him stronger etc. N I didn't believe him. so he stopped sharing. and I guess that what got me. I felt guilty. cuz all of it turned out to be true. but yeah. Shudn't hv given him the rope I did. He said he was going through a lot. and I was being as patient as possible. I was such an idiot. God.

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