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Crazy relocation?

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ilkleymoorbartat · 29/01/2021 20:38

Has anyone done this? A seemingly random relocation to another part of the country or more likely abroad, which on paper seems bonkers? How has it worked out for you?

Surely lots of people are doing it at the moment?

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AtlasPine · 30/01/2021 09:40

Haven’t done it but often dream of it!

ilkleymoorbartat · 30/01/2021 11:52

Same. I'm interested to know how it works out for people who do it.

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WolandP · 13/04/2021 09:46

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BunnyRuddington · 13/04/2021 09:56

Which newspaper do you work for Ilkley?

ilkleymoorbartat · 13/04/2021 13:53

Funnily enough I did used to work for a newspaper. Why do you think this is for a feature? Doesn't seem like an unreasonable question to ask.

I've got some friends who've just announced that they're moving to Spain without any connections to the place they're going. Moving wholesale with two kids. It's made me think about what it would be like to do the same. Are people happy with those kinds of moves.

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Sporranrummager · 13/04/2021 13:58

I did exactly what your friends are doing @ilkleymoorbartat , it was great!
However:
I learned the language within a few months of arriving, I have a natural aptitude for languages, as do my children.
I kept my house in the UK, which I rented out.
I found a job.
I stayed far away from other ex-pats
In other words I moved to and lived in another country, I didn't treat it as an extended holiday.

ilkleymoorbartat · 13/04/2021 14:00

Are you still there @Sporranrummager

How old were your kids and how did they adjust??

Thanks for replying!!

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Sporranrummager · 13/04/2021 14:02

They were both primary aged and they adjusted just fine.
I find it is a very English thing to regard moving from one country to another as a great upheaval.
Learn the language, have transferable works skills and give it a go.

Katyowl · 13/04/2021 14:09

I did it about 15 years ago as a single mum, no job to go to and not really knowing anyone (a couple of brief acquaintances only) in my new location.
I upped and left north England to the wilds of north Scotland and spent a few months wondering what I’d done!
Best thing ever as it turns out, I wouldn’t move back now if you paid me Smile
Though I’d wanted to move for a while it ultimately ended up happening on a spur of the moment, randomly found a rental place and upped n left in the space of a month.
The way I see it is I could always have gone back if it didn’t work out.

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