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7 year old chewing teddy at night - is it a problem?

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Twerking9to5 · 21/01/2021 08:33

My 7 yo DS has always slept with a teddy of some sort and chews it’s ears/arms whatever is deemed chewable. 5 yo DD does the same.

DH wants them to be able to settle without the chewing bit. I get his points that: the teddies get really wet and smell, sucking and chewing all night is probably not good for teeth/jaws. Ideally they’d have a teddy to cuddle but not chew.

I’m finding it hard because it’s such a comfort for them. I’m more of the opinion that they’ll stop when they’re ready but interested to see what others think. The last few nights of trying DS without a chewable teddy has been really tough but do we just press on?

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Heybeendyingtomeetyou · 21/01/2021 09:59

DS was like this when he was small. It stank, we had several so we could wash and swap but I was worried it was a breeding ground for bacteria and could cause problems with his teeth.
We took the opportunity when he had a bout of tonsillitis, and was doped up on prescription medication, to remove it. I felt awful as he was upset and poorly but he got over it pretty quickly. He was a lot younger than your DC though so was easier to distract/deflect.

PricklyMonkey · 21/01/2021 10:23

My 4yo DD is the same. She had a dummy until she was 3 and moved on to teddies when we finally managed to take the dummy away. Like you, I am of the mind that she will stop when she is ready and that it brings her great comfort. I do sneak in when I go up to bed and take it out of her mouth though.

And you're right, it does stink! Luckily, DD isn't fussy about what it is she is chewing so I can wash things very regularly.

Twerking9to5 · 21/01/2021 11:27

We have a lot of them on rotation as they get washed and after every chew! I just worry perhaps they are damaging to teeth/palates and maybe we should have nipped it In The bud years ago.

Now I’m wondering how to get rid....do we do a goodbye picnic? That feels too sad to me, but also don’t want to just take them away with no warning!

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