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advice please, I'm having a hard time

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thinkpozzitive · 09/01/2021 23:14

the song "all by myself" has never resonated so much

i'm with a lovely guy who is my everything. But I feel sick deep in the pit of my stomach because I just can't imagine marrying and having kids with him. I escaped a dead end place for my university and have stayed here for 8 years since graduating. My partner is the only person I know here now. I don't know anyone else but love the place.

I feel like a child who needs her mum. I called my mum but she was busy watching a program and didn't want to talk. Although I have friends I don't want to burden them because they have their own struggles and have never invited me talking about difficulties.

My partner and I run a business together, so if I broke things off I could lose everything. It would also break my heart twice over breaking his heart.

Can anyone guide me? Has anyone felt this sickness and been in a similar position?

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LouiseTrees · 09/01/2021 23:31

Why can’t you imagine marrying and having kids with him? That needs to be worked through before you make any rash decisions. If it’s because you are homesick he might move to where you are from. Maybe you just need to find more friends where you are. It’s really difficult to say or give advice.

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