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How was 2020?

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Skybooks · 31/12/2020 20:08

So it's new years eve!

2020 Started amazingly, and then I was furloughed, had my second miscarriage that I had to attend scan alone for, been made redundant and got a new job that it about to end so am facing unemployment.

We are still TTC which seems ridiculous with money, job and covid problems and I have no idea what I would like to do career wise!

So 2021 please a job or a baby is all I ask, please!

Not point to this other than the reflective NYE crap.

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DollyMixtureLulus · 31/12/2020 20:13

Lonely. Not touched anyone since.... January/Feb? But this time next year, I'm going to have a boyfriend, I've decided. Fed up of being single.

I hope you have better luck in 2021 Flowers

Sideorderofchips · 31/12/2020 20:14

Shit. Husband had an affair, separated, covid, can't get home to see my parents.

snowone · 31/12/2020 20:16

A rollercoaster! Lots of ups and downs. Missed my friends and family terribly but glad that so far we have all remained healthy.

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Skybooks · 31/12/2020 20:17

@DollyMixtureLulus I so hope you can find someone for a hug!

@Sideorderofchips so so sorry

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bitheby · 31/12/2020 20:19

I had a miscarriage at Easter and one chemical since then. I am desperate to have a baby and really worried that it won't happen for me but here's hoping 2021 is the year for both of us.

user710925 · 31/12/2020 20:21

The hardest scariest year of my life :(

Diagnosed with cancer just as we went into lockdown, consultant couldn't tell me when I would receive further treatment that I needed because of the pandemic. Never felt so scared/vulnerable in my life.

TheTrashBagIsOursCmonTrashBag · 31/12/2020 20:32

Early miscarriage, partner diagnosed with life long condition, various relatives diagnosed with serious and/or terminal illnesses. Money worries due to covid. I’m hopeful that 2021 will be better. It doesn’t have to be brilliant but an improvement would be appreciated.

DramaAlpaca · 31/12/2020 20:34

Easily the most stressful year of my life.

I'm mostly a very positive person, but I'm struggling find much that was good this year.

QforCucumber · 31/12/2020 20:39

For contrast - not awful. Found out in feb that my pregnancy was fine and we were having a boy after 2 mmcs and a tfmr. Completed the sale of our first house and purchase of our long term home. Booked a last min holiday end of Feb to celebrate our 1st wedding anniversary and then we got home, moved in and the world turned to shit. Mat leave started 1st June baby born mid June. Ds1 started reception and managed only 1 period of isolation. Dh and I haven't killed each other after spending more time together in the last 10 months than we have in 10 years together. And it will end with cheese and wine

S0CKS · 31/12/2020 20:40

Started well was furloughed and then made redundant. Another year older still not conceived a child then Christmas rolled round good old t4 Christmas.

Skybooks · 31/12/2020 20:46

Shall we mourn the year together?

@user710925 I do hope the news is more positive now? I know how hard delayed treatment has been this year.

@bitheby and @TheTrashBagIsOursCmonTrashBag so sorry for your loss, good luck for 2021

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LauraAshleySofa · 31/12/2020 20:53

2020 went well for me.

Chronic Asthmatic, global pandemic of a respiratory illness and I didn't catch it.. Win

The one time in my lifetime that I was unemployed all year and that's the year the schools shut. I was so lucky to be home to take care of the dc.. Bonus win

I was mature enough not to panic buy so I am not carrying a bunch of debt and expired use by date food into 2021..double bonus

It's been a dull year, I would have liked to have achieved more, I gained weight, lost a holiday, but overall I am calling it a win.

Best of luck to all of us for 2021!

Pipandmum · 31/12/2020 20:53

While my income was affected and we haven't seen some family, it was by no stretch my worst year. That was when I lost my father and husband. This year in comparison was easy.

Toffeefee23 · 31/12/2020 20:53

Not too bad in all honesty.

I’m lucky I can WFH and have saved hours not commuting. This enabled me to spend more time doing my sport and I’ve met some fab new people I wouldn’t otherwise have met.

WFH with no childcare in lockdown 1 was horrific though.

I’ve missed seeing my family especially my mum who lives far away.

DD is 2 so too young to know better.

So I’ve got off lightly compared to a lot of people.

Flowers for those who have had it super tough.

LowestEbb · 31/12/2020 21:01

I'm so sorry OP. Flowers
I also had a miscarriage the beginning of this month and I'm still reeling. Feel very sad to not be going into the new year still pregnant and knowing I will have a baby in my arms this year.
My mum and brother got COVID, my best friend got diagnosed with breast cancer and its hard to find anything to feel positive about. I don't really like new years eve at the best of times but this one just feels very empty.

Hoping for a more positive and peaceful 2021 for us all.

Waxonwaxoff0 · 31/12/2020 21:06

It was dull. I was furloughed from March until August and had a horrible time trying to home school DS who wouldn't engage at all. Went back to work in August and still working which I'm thankful for, furlough really did save the company I work for and saved my job. I managed to go out for my 30th birthday in August while the restrictions were relaxed. DS going back to school was a relief, he works better at school than at home.

It's been pretty monotonous since October, all I do is go to work and then come back home again. Roll on 2021, the first half will likely be difficult but the second half should be vastly better. Flowers to everyone who is having a bad time.

WanderingMilly · 31/12/2020 21:24

I am really sad to read some of these posts, I am so sorry for the lives which have been disrupted and turned upside down as a result of the pandemic.

For me it has not been an easy year either, but I do consider myself very fortunate....and it certainly wasn't the worst year of my life.

2020 started off well, but the pandemic meant I had to give up my life overseas and return to the UK. I consider myself very lucky I found accommodation and work at such short notice.

I was furloughed and thought I would lose my job. But I didn't, and I'm still working, it's part-time work too which is lovely, I don't want to work full time now I'm older so I feel lucky with that.

I caught COVID but survived, I am very thankful.

I know others who had caught COVID, sadly past colleagues and previous acquaintances from different parts of the country have died. Very upsetting. But my own immediate family have come through so far, I can't say how thankful I am for that.

Now there are vaccines, our wonderful scientists and NHS workers have been extraordinary in a crisis, as have many others who have kept things running (shops, deliveries, transport, schools) and wonderful everyday people who have supported neighbours or communities.

Not an easy year but a good amount to be positive about.

TheTrashBagIsOursCmonTrashBag · 31/12/2020 21:24

@Skybooks

Shall we mourn the year together?

@user710925 I do hope the news is more positive now? I know how hard delayed treatment has been this year.

@bitheby and @TheTrashBagIsOursCmonTrashBag so sorry for your loss, good luck for 2021

Thank you, you too Flowers
Figgyboa · 31/12/2020 21:39

Rollercoaster for me.
Highs: Went on a brilliant trip of a lifetime at the beginning of the year, saw my family who live overseas, OH got his dream job and I'm bettering my life through exercise/healthy eating.
Lows: lost my job due to coronavirus

Octopus37 · 31/12/2020 21:49

Mixed for me. Have started a course which I am enjoying, hopefully this should lead to an eventual career change. I have lost half a stone (was more pre-Christmas, not as much as I wanted but its something. I know I have been very lucky to stay in work (self-employed), despite ups and downs and needing to sign on with new companies (I freelance). We moved house in June, feel fairly settled now, it took me a while to stop missing our old house though, felt as if we had made a big mistake. Things have been difficult with my Dad this year, his partner went into a care home and he hasn't seen her since the end of August, he lived with us for six weeks and is now in sheltered accommodation near my Sister, he is very lonely cause of the covid restrictions and its hard on my Sister, feel guilty but cannot do anything cause of covid. On the plus side have spent more time with my Dad this year than I have for about 15 years. Lots to work on and improve in 2021. I really hope that this is a better year for people who have had a harder 2020.

Soutiner · 31/12/2020 21:50

Not much different than the previous couple of years as I have been practicing social distancing since 2017 when I was very ill.

I won’t/don’t wear a mask so no impact of wearing one and I do most of my shopping online or click and collect.

On the rare occasion I go in a shop I only use a small store and wait until there are no other customers or only one or two others.

The only difference for me is travel restrictions which means I can’t go to some places but there are plenty of other places to go every day with my dogs.

I’m retired so don’t have the worry of work and my children are all independent adults with their own homes and jobs.

Ltdannygreen · 31/12/2020 21:56

The only thing 2020 has proved to me is how stupid half the country is.

shamus2020 · 31/12/2020 22:04

The year started with me looking for work. I went into employment in feb (key worker) then covid hit, my grandad died at the end of March. I've worked the whole way through (not moaning as I know thousands have lost their jobs) things have been steady and was looking forward to seeing the back of this year and was so so close to not having to hear of anymore shit, then midday today got awful news that someone I know died of covid this morning a young lass of 30. It's proper knocked me so I'm off to bed before anything else happens.

Skybooks · 31/12/2020 23:57

Here it is,

HAPPY NEW YEAR ALL!

2021

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