Parenting and relationships

[fay96]

Really need some advice, my son is now 4 months old and my relationship with my partner has gone down hill rapidly he works full time and he comes home and dosnt help out I do everything for our son, I have to ask him to take our baby while I do things I do everything around the house he doesn't do anything untill I ask plus with covid we are home all day, I have ask my famliy for advice and they just side with my partner and say hes trying and make me feel like am just being moody and tell me am giving him a hard time, what does any of you think ? Am getting to the point am gonna end up leaving him soon

Sounds like it's time for you to go out when he gets home, several times a week.

How’s he going to get to know his son if he never spends time with him? Doesn’t he love his child and want a decent relationship with him? Babies that age change by the day.

Why are your family on his side? Fuck trying, you don’t get to opt out of parenting and claim you’re trying. You had to learn on the job once your baby arrived, as we all did. If you cared as little about taking care of your son and meeting his needs as his dad does he’d have been taken off you by now.

Was the baby planned? Did he want to be a dad?

Did he do housework before you had your son or has he always been lazy and left up to you?