So on xmas day we are at mils, and in the chat that you have after a good few proseccos i mentioned how i hadnt ever seen any pics of dh as a child. She god a bit awkward looking and said that due to having to flee a domestic abuse situation with dh's father (which i knew about so ferl bad about bringing it up...) She didnt have many photos. She then went and dug out a few photos that she had that shed got off other people years after the fact.
But i just felt so bad that id brought this uo as something she had to explicitly say! I knew about it the horrible home situation at the time, but through dh, not something that mil has ever had to admit to me iykwim. She just seemed so embarrassed which i didnt mean to or want to cause, was just a stupid thing to say that i wouldnt have said if i had thought for half a second.
After years of being on these forums and readung threads from such brave women who have got out of horrible situations like mil was in, i just feel so bad that i may have made someone feel bad about what they ran away from iykwim?
Dunno why im posting this really, just guilt i suppose.