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Anyone else find the restrictions have made Xmas less stressful?

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Eastie77 · 24/12/2020 17:15

Normally at this stage I'd be rushing around getting a last minute something. I'd have visits to relatives planned, often involving dragging the DC around to various houses, or have to tidy my bombsite in order to receive guests. Not to mention the usual round of work drinks, parties, client events etc. I'm ususally exhausted and frazzled by the time the 'big day' rolls around.

This year has been crap on so many levels and I've missed a lot of the pre-Christmas events such as midnight carols by candlelight at our local church but I've also felt that so much of the stress of Christmas has just evaporated becuase of all the restrictions. I feel a huge amount of relief at not having to drive here there and everywhere to visit anyone. We've cut back on a lot of our usual spending and it's all going to be very low-key. I realise there are some people who are facing a very lonely Christmas and so I apologise if this comes across as insensitive.

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Werk · 25/12/2020 10:20

Yes! I am a total people pleaser and so Christmas is usually stressful for me because I spend ages worrying about presents, ages working out the logistics of seeing all the family (divorced parents, ILs etc) and end up driving here there and everywhere. DH moans every year about it because all he is concerned about is seeing his own family and he doesn't really get on with my dad (they're fine - just chalk and cheese so nothing to talk about and my dad is pretty deaf but fails to acknowledge it or wear his hearing aids, plus he drinks a lot so we end up chauffeuring him around). This year I mainly bought people vouchers for small/ local businesses - restaurants and such - things that could be emailed or easily posted.

Our plans have changed because we are tier 4 and so it is just the 4 of us - but this is probably the Christmas we always wanted but never felt we could have.

I will be happy to go back to the big family Christmas - hopefully next year - but as shit as 2020 has been I really cannot complain about Christmas (so far).

TheYearOfSmallThings · 25/12/2020 10:29

Yes!

I'm genuinely sad about all the stuff we're missing out on. But...it will be nice, just for one year, to eat food I actually like, not be running around like a skivvy all day, go for a walk in the sunshine, play the new games, and maybe watch a Christmas special on Christmas day!

That's after I plod through the 173 Christmas phone calls I am responsible for, of course.

Milkshake7489 · 26/12/2020 23:11

No.

I'm really lucky as I had an absolutely lovely day with our Christmas bubble (mum, sis and bil) and everyone we didn't pick to bubble with was ridiculously understanding... but the guilt of choosing was far more stressful than our usual rushing around to fit everyone in over the festive period!

Plus I have really missed seeing my dad, stepmum, inlaws, and extended family properly Sad

Nevermind, we will make up for it once restrictions ease Smile

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