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Another empty gesture?? - bell ringing in Xmas eve

35 replies

YogaLite · 23/12/2020 13:51

Is there no end to stupidity??

www.google.com/amp/s/www.bbc.com/news/amp/uk-england-york-north-yorkshire-55394253

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Monkeypeas · 23/12/2020 16:17

@MariaTia

So all those people without friends are going to be so miserable when their phone doesn't ring.

Could really send people over the edge couldn't it who were feeling shit already

It’s a two way street though isn’t it? Couldn't those people call someone else?

As for people saying where do you get bells from? It was started for children ages ago, plenty of time to find a musical instrument if not already owned one and funnily enough many Christmas decorations come with a bell on and are readily available in shops at this time of year

pantsville · 23/12/2020 17:09

I agree with the poster who said it’s fine as long as it doesn’t involve saucepans. However, I’m not the type of person who enjoys communal “organised fun” type things, so I’m not going to sit here and say how lovely it all is.

But similarly I can’t see why anyone will be upset or pushed over the edge at children ringing bells on Christmas Eve either. Can anyone explain why that might be the case? I don’t really understand.

People bashing saucepans, setting off fireworks and leaning on their car horns every week during the first lockdown was incredibly bloody annoying but I felt like a pariah for getting upset by it and not participating. But then, my neighbours were getting on my last nerve as it was, with everyone embracing the novelty of being at home and making slight nuisances of themselves in general during that period. People making a constant racket, combined with the long days and hot weather made me feel more miserable and trapped than I already was. This Christmas bell thing just feels a bit different from that.

xmasfairybuns · 23/12/2020 17:28

@MariaTia

So all those people without friends are going to be so miserable when their phone doesn't ring.

Could really send people over the edge couldn't it who were feeling shit already

tonight's news of a change in tier has just sent me over the edge, my support bubble person has said they will not be in a support bubble with me any more. It was only in name anyway as they would only stand outside my house and talk for a few minutes.

whoever thought of the bells now can shove their bells where the sun don't shine.

xmasfairybuns · 23/12/2020 17:29

@pantsville But similarly I can’t see why anyone will be upset or pushed over the edge at children ringing bells on Christmas Eve either. Can anyone explain why that might be the case? I don’t really understand.

Read my post upthread where i have explained this.

xmasfairybuns · 23/12/2020 17:30

It’s a two way street though isn’t it? Couldn't those people call someone else?

Not if they don't have anybody to call.

xmasfairybuns · 23/12/2020 17:32

@EverythingsComingUpRoses

So no one is allowed to do anything to cheer themselves up in case it makes anyone else feel bad?

Utter bollocks

If people want to stand on their doorsteps and jingle a bell, let them crack on!

i don't think anybody said that but it's not unreasonable to say how shit these events make you feel. it doesn't mean they shouldn't happen but we can say we struggle with them can't we?
MrsDThomas · 23/12/2020 17:32

Its a lovely idea. Ive got loads of cowbells from past races I’ve run and if i was there id ring my bells.

What is wrong with standing on your doorstep with a bell for a few minutes?

AcornAutumn · 23/12/2020 18:03

@xmasfairybuns

It’s a two way street though isn’t it? Couldn't those people call someone else?

Not if they don't have anybody to call.

I’m sorry OP. Flowers
OverTheRubicon · 23/12/2020 18:09

@EverythingsComingUpRoses

So no one is allowed to do anything to cheer themselves up in case it makes anyone else feel bad?

Utter bollocks

If people want to stand on their doorsteps and jingle a bell, let them crack on!

This. As a newly single mum I've had a lonely year, but the community feel of my street has been one of the few positives. We've mostly got Christmas lights up, we say hi and know each others' names for the first time, and I'll be ringing a bell out the window to say hi to our elderly neighbours, and hopefully it will.make us all feel a little less alone in this.
MariaTia · 23/12/2020 18:18

Sorry to hear that xmasfairybuns I will be thinking of you. Do come on MN on xmas day you will get support on here Flowers

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