I moved to Wales a year ago for my husband's promotion, which means more money and it was the best decision we have made as he is on a better salary. But for me I had to leave my job which I loved and find another one straight away and sort out childcare at the same time due to my working hours so I am settled for now and saved money for our deposit to buy a house.
We found a house we love and the only one we want out of the rest of them because we cannot afford to live in the city, downside is that it is too far for me to travel to work every day and even on the train I'd have to get 3 of them there and back, which I simply cannot do with a child in tow. Luckily my husband can go directly. Which means now I have to leave my current job again and find something else nearby.
Even though I managed before, this time I am worried about doing it all over again and wondering whether I'd actually be able to find one this time. Not only that, my mental health suffers if I am at home all day with nothing to do. I am already alone, away from my family and friends. I'm sure i will be OK and we finally have our dream home, I'm just worried that's all. What if my husband loses his job, how would we pay for our mortgage if I don't have one?