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Easily led 3year old

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Motherofmonsters · 17/12/2020 21:59

Hi,

Just looking for advice/experience of this issue Im having.

DS is 3, goes to Preschool and is currently under assessment for sensory issues. They have a few behaviour problems with him being to rough, finding it hard to calm down for floor work but they've been advised to work on a sensory diet to help.

They've noted that he is easily led by other children and will copy/join in on their behaviours. It's come to light that one of his friends that he plays with is not a good influence and the day he wasn't there DS was a different calmer child.

How do I deal with DS being led by others. At the moment the concept is over his head but is there anything I can do to help as he gets older.

He has been telling me that this child is being 'naughty' but I wrongly assumed that it was actually him and he was pretending it was someone else (wrong I know but I'm kinda used to it usually being DS)

He sometimes says he doesn't want to go because of this child and I have told DS that he doesn't have to play with him but I don't think he understands. He will then say he wants to play with him after this.

Thank you for any advice

OP posts:
Diverseduvet · 17/12/2020 22:01

Can you big up some other more suitable friends, even try an arrange an outside meet up away from pre school, to strengthen their relationship?

Embracelife · 17/12/2020 22:03

They are both three
Ask nursery to intervene

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