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I'm so confused - pregnancy? Relationship?

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RenM · 17/12/2020 17:11

So to start of I'm 22 - married for 3 years. My health has been wack for 3 months with piles non stop, chest infection and colds. My questions are; can you be pregnant and have periods? We had sex in October around the 6th. Had my period all fine in October then november period hit - normal period if not stringy but a week before my breasts were sore which is strange for me as I only get sore breasts a day or two before. Anyhow it's been a month and my breasts are still incredibly sore. I cant wear a bra as it feels suffocating. My vagina (Tmi sorry) felt swollen the other week. I've also been constipated, I'm stressed to hell, emotional and my anxiety is constant BUT I'm constantly freezing. (3/7 hot water bottles a day with heating) I'm constantly tired as soon as I wake up, I have no energy. I've moved in with hubby last week but starting to one minute adore him the next debating to leave and go back home and/or kill him (not literally just annoys me). I had pinching on either side of my stomach 2 days ago for a minute then stopped. I've had a few headaches and my back! Dear hell my back killlls and I keep needing a wee every hour or two. Is pregnancy with periods even possible?

I'm also debating the marriage. Sometimes I just feel dread for him coming back after work. I dont want to have sex as last time a week ago I had a panic attack after. I feel like a doll when he comes to me wanting to (sorry) have a wank on me.

I'm so just my head is a mess and I'm not sure what's going on. Any help would be hugely appreciated!

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slavetothenhs · 18/12/2020 07:27

So, let me get this right - you're married, but don't really live with / have only just moved in with your husband, and he likes to come and wank over you and you have panic attacks after sex? Whatever else is going on with you physically, that is not part of a normal, loving relationship. If you think you're pregnant, take a test, and either way book a doctors appointment to address the physical symptoms that you're experiencing.

What are the circumstances surrounding your marriage?

slavetothenhs · 18/12/2020 07:29

As for your symptoms, I'd get yourself checked out for a kidney infection as that could cause some of the symptoms you're experiencing (back ache, frequent urination, temperature etc)

StopGo · 18/12/2020 07:37

Are you using contraception? You need to do a pregnancy test. Also get checked for STIs and possible kidney infection etc.

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CodenameVillanelle · 18/12/2020 07:39

Your set up sounds a bit unusual and we would probably need more background to advise on the marriage but I would suggest doing a pregnancy test ASAP.

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