My Dh is a wonderful man. He works hard, provides us with everything we could possibly need and is an amazing dad. Our Dc adore him.
Since the first lockdown (when kids were home) we stopped having sex. His choice. We had it once every 8-12 weeks.
The kids are back at school and we have had plenty of time at home without Dc. Yet we still haven’t had sex. It’s got to the point that it’s awkward. He says he has no sex drive and isn’t bothered about sex.
When I try it on he pushes me away.
In bed when he’s half asleep/full asleep he tries it on with me. He acts like a completely different guy. He grabs my hand and puts it on his bits, he’s confident but he isn’t hard. As soon as I play and he starts getting excited he seems to realise what’s going on and then rolls over.
Last night he seemed to be enjoying it and more awake, I went down on him for literally 20 secs then he told me he had finished and rolled over.
I’m so fed up and feeling so unwanted.
It makes me feel he thinks I’m someone else and then when he realises it’s me he rolls over.
In the morning 99% of the time he doesn’t remember it.
I’m at the point where do I have an affair?
Iv asked about counselling but he doesn’t think there is a problem.