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wishthiswasreallife · 14/12/2020 20:40

I'm cooking Christmas dinner for the first time ever next week,in all my 26 years Iv went to DM for Christmas dinner and Boxing Day and always had the most amazing dinner.

However COVID...So there's going to be 5 of us this year (including me and DD) coming to my house and I'm cooking!I want it to be lovely and not an embarrassment when I burn everything and start crying etc etc Blush

What's your hints and tips?Timings?what do I NEED in a Christmas dinner?nibbles?snacks?cheese?starter?Drinks?

Then your best organising tips likes lists and so on because I'm so ditsy I mainly write shopping lists on my hands to remember and still forget...

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SeaToSki · 14/12/2020 23:00

Delia smith is your friend

You can make tomorrow and freeze
Stuffing
Bread sauce
Bacon rolls
Mince pies
You can make tomorrow and fridge
Cranberry relish
Brandy butter
You can make tomorrow and out in a.shelf
Christmas pudding
Christmas cake

Then the week before go through your timings and write it all out backwards and don't forget to allow.fpr the oven to heat up
The day before peel all the veg and let it sit somewhere cool in the saucepan covered with water overnight (potatoes as well) and then set the table.and allocate serving dishes and utensils for each item.

On the day, relax and enjoy the cook

NiceGerbil · 14/12/2020 23:13

I'm not keen on Turkey and for 5 is not needed as the reason for it is to feed loads of people.

Would they be ok with eg a nice piece of beef with all the trimmings?

The best Xmas we ever had was when my dad left and my mum did a duck for the 3 of us with fewer sides and it was lovely, she was more relaxed but that may have been to do with wider factors Grin

I would if the first time and people I know well. Do something I know they all like meatwise and other bits they all like.

Smoked salmon on brown bread with fizz is an easy starter that you can have when people arrive etc and also lines the stomach a bit.

As long as there's crackers and Xmas pudding (which I hate) the choice of meat for main is not the be all and end all.

I'd do lamb or beef for 5 or a big chicken for 5. Need pigs in blankets of course. I like yorkshires with everything...

We have quite a lot of roasts though and I know non Turkey is not Xmas for some but just some thoughts.

Good luck!!!

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NiceGerbil · 14/12/2020 23:18

It's also ok to

Ask for help in kitchen
Accept help
Get people to bring stuff
Etc etc

In the end they want to see you!

(In theory that's more important but that's not how it works in my family... Yes issues!)

Assuming they like you they will be more than happy with a nice roast even if it doesn't have all the bits that many people hate anyway, and your company :)

Floralnomad · 14/12/2020 23:20

Get as much stuff as you can ready prepared ie veg , write a list of timings for cooking and if you’ve not already got one get a meat thermometer . Get a turkey crown / breast instead of a whole bird , it takes up less space and does away with the bits you won’t eat anyway .

infinitediamonds · 14/12/2020 23:24

Dh writes down all the timings in advance, and then refuses to let anyone else in the kitchen while cooking, drinking red wine and listening to the radio. (I don't cook as I'm vegetarian and while I will cook meat I don't be huge lump of animal looking meat.)

NiceGerbil · 14/12/2020 23:24

Oh and the smoked salmon fizz bit is milling around/ doing presents or whatever, not sitting at table.

I like that bit best tbh Grin

planningaheadtoday · 14/12/2020 23:49

If this is your first hosting the cheat wisely.

No one will know and you can pass things off as a gorgeous meal without too much bother.

Get yourself a decent digital meat thermometer.

Aunt bessies Yorkshire puddings ready to reheat at the very end just as you are about to serve.
Aunt bessies roast potatoes
Aunty bessies carrot and swede mash (in the Microwave)

Turkey crown as it's fairly quick to cook, use half a block of butter rubber in thickly and layer bacon over it to keep it moist. Sit it on some onions very roughly chopped with skins on. Seal with foil and cook to instructions. You can prep this the night before, cover in fridge.

Decent chipolata sausages that can be thrown around the turkey 30 mins before it come out to rest.

Sprouts need to be fresh, but peel them the night before. Parsnips cook quickly, throw them in with the roast potatoes.

Instant gravy is fine but strain the meat juices into a jug, remove as much fat as you can and add these juices the the water you are making your gravy with. No one will know.

Fancy stuffing? Use normal stuffing and skin a few of the chipolata sausages and mix into the rehydrated mix. Cook for 30 mins. You can add a finely chopped leek if you feel you have time,

You need to plan when turkey needs to go in. It need to come out at least 45 mins before you serve so factor this into your calculations.

90 mins before you all sit down put the chipolatas to cook around the turkey.
45 mins before everyone sits down throw in the potatoes and sprouts. Put In the stuffing. Set timer to 30 mins.

20 mins before you all sit down put the stove top veg on.

You'll be checking the veg as you go and removing cooked veg, strain cooking water into the serving dish to warm it. Then drain and use this to put veg into. Cover.

5 mins before strain the juices and make the gravy.

Just before you call everyone, get the potatoes and parsnips out, serving dish. Put the Yorkshire's (precooked ones) back into the hot oven for three mins.

That's it.

It's a bit manic in the last 10 mins. I keep people out of my kitchen.

Lay the table the night before, there is never enough time on the day and it's quite time consuming to get it right.

Remember you can chill drinks outside the back door, it's usually cold enough if you are short on fridge space.

The other thing I do is have a list on the fridge of what's going on the table. Many a year I've forgotten condiments or something gets left in the microwave.

I have served Christmas dinner now for 35 years, but I still remember my first!

PastMyBestBeforeDate · 15/12/2020 00:01

What do you want to eat? It's pointless other people telling you what they do.

Fuckitsstillraining · 15/12/2020 00:35

Check out BiaMaith on facebook, he is a chef who gives wonderful instructions including videos and I'm pretty sure he sets everything out clearly including timings. He has on previous years even made himself available online to answer questions on Christmas morning if someone was stuck.

wishthiswasreallife · 15/12/2020 20:15

Thanks everyone for all the replies,I have been going through the comments taking notes!i do feel a tiny bit more confident but the pressure is horrendous.

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HappyDays10101 · 15/12/2020 20:19

The only thing that has to be served as soon as it is cooked, and can't be reheated/kept warm/served lukewarm, are roast potatoes. So they should form the backbone of your timetable!

shinynewapple2020 · 15/12/2020 20:28

Buy as much ready made as you can and keep it simple .

nancybotwinbloom · 15/12/2020 20:36

@BadEyeBri

Buy the whole lot oven ready- bird, veg, spuds everything. Bung it all in the oven. Set timers on your phone. Get in loads of booze. Done.
This.

It's just a roast op you will be fine.

shinynewapple2020 · 15/12/2020 20:44

Use stuffing balls and cook on tray with pigs in blankets rather than stuffing your turkey .

Get a turkey crown rather than whole bird, put some butter under skin and then cross cross with streaky bacon on the top to stop drying out

It's better to use frozen roasties and parsnips than have fresh ones not cook properly (or you worry about them not cooking )

Buy ready made gravy in a plastic tub (I think it's nice adding a splash of something alcoholic eg port or wine)

Prepare any fresh veg the day before and put in water (eg in saucepans ready for cooking )

We always have Christmas pudding but if your family don't like this you could get another desert of your choosing .

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