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Have you ever relocated and regretted it?

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Annoy · 12/12/2020 19:26

We moved from Wales to England when my dd was small, just before she started school as, although I’m Welsh I don’t speak fluently Welsh, and my dh is English. We lived in a Welsh speaking area and we decided at the time that it would be best for dd to go to an English speaking school.

We moved to a beautiful part of England wher we have always holidayed in the past.

6yrs on I still don’t feel settled and do pine for being back in Wales, mainly family are there, it’s all I’ve ever known, I didn’t move away for uni so I have lots of friends there ranging from school to uni to work to mum friends. I visit approx 3 times a year.

I do have friends here in England though and a job, so does dh... although no friends as he’s naturally not very sociable. We have hobbies and kids have friends and are settled in school. Youngest was 6 months old when we moved so knows no different.

We both want to move back but dd starts high school in Sept and we feel that this would be massively unfair on dc to move.

An English speaking area of Wales is not an option, we want to move back to where we came from.

Has anyone been in a similar position?

OP posts:
JesusInTheCabbageVan · 12/12/2020 20:35

[quote Planetzog]@Annoy if you move back to Wales won't your DD be taught in Welsh?[/quote]
It depends - some schools are Welsh medium and some are English. At least, in South Wales. If OK is thinking of moving to NW I would guess most of not all schools are Welsh medium?

That said, it's fairly usual for kids in WM schools to have non-Welsh speaking parents. It's not an obstacle.

mbosnz · 12/12/2020 20:39

earache, I'm NZ. We did think about going to Canada - it was one of the options on the table! Of course, we seconded there during the great icestorm of 2017, I think it was. . . it's all a bloody great blur. . .

Earache2020 · 12/12/2020 20:44

Having your children learn Welsh could be great? It could open up some opportunities for them. I moved to a new secondary school part way through and loved it but I was quite adventurous.

Yorensnow · 12/12/2020 20:53

Hi OP when I was younger I moved from England to a very rural part of Wales to a welsh medium school in Y8 and loved it, thrived in fact. Good luck

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