NC with sibling

[Jojoanna]

I’m NC with a sibling . I have been diagnosed with cancer but well at the moment . I and sorting out loads of junk and have some baby photos of sibling and a couple of personal bits that my parent had left in their effects. Should I send them on to sibling or throw them in the bin or is that spiteful ? There is absolutely no way we would ever see each other and I have no interest in seeing them anyway or trying to initiate contact.

I'm NC with my sibling, and like you, contact will never be re-established. I'd have to try and find them to contact them as I've no idea where they live or tel number etc. If I had their address I'd post them, otherwise no.

Sorry about your diagnosis.

I am sorry you’ve had this diagnosis.
Don’t be spiteful, you don’t need any negativity just now. Put the things together in a box, labelled with your sibling’s name, and put it aside somewhere then forget about it.
Surround yourself with positive thoughts and actions and pack up any negative possessions to keep your mind clear and focussed.

Is there another family member who could take them and deal with them.

You don't need anyone's permission to throw them away if that is your easiest option.

Thank you for your replies , I could box everything up and maybe somebody else could deliver it