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Livinhope · 05/12/2020 18:35

Hi. I truly hope no one is going through this, but if anyone can give me good advice, I will be very grateful...
My husband is one of those moody ppl.when he's in a good mood, we all have to entertain that mood, when he feels like belittling me, I must just accept it. Married now for 21 years and have 5 fabulous kids..
Smallest is just 5..
My question is, to maintain my sanity, keep myself away from deep depression, and to keep peace in the house, should I act like nothings wrong and go on with life? He's not a person to reason with. And he knows how to minupilate. I am soft and can never stand up to him. He always proves himself to be right n me to be wrong.
I know most of u must be saying "why don't I walk out" I have no job,no home ownership, no education and 5 kids to care for. My kids r all in the prime of their lives, A levels, gcse etc.
Dealing with my rotten marriage will affect my kids performances at school.

Kindly spare a few moments to give me advice. I know I will feel stronger.
Thank you

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MargeProopsSpecs · 05/12/2020 18:45

Sorry op, but whether you ignore his moods or pander to him it's going to affect your mental health as it probably has already.
Sorry you're in this shit situation. Flowers

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