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Why do I feel so guilty about being signed off?

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Thurlow · 03/12/2020 18:30

Its been a long year for everyone, but I've hit a wall. 2 DC, nearly full time job, husband doing shift work that can't be done from home. Just bounced into the second round if isolation in 3 weeks for the 4yo and was trying to juggle working half days around him because I don't have much annual left. I suppose I could have asked for unpaid parental leave to cover the time instead. Just kept wanting to sob all the time, had to leave several meetings because I knew I was going to cry on someone. GP was very sympathetic and said I probably just needed some time to try and switch off and regroup after the past 8 months of trying to juggle everything constantly.

I've never been signed off like this. I feel guilty because it's hardly like I'm going through something that no one else is - there's thousands of parents trying to cope like this with young kids.

Any tips to shift this guilt and try to actually use the time off to feel less stressed?

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StylishMummy · 03/12/2020 18:39

Yes everyone's going through broadly the same, but we all have a different tolerance for stress and you've reached yours. Don't feel guilty, you work to live not live to work!

Take the time, use it to regroup, relax and get back to full strength mentally and physically.

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