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Inherited nightmare house - what to do?

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TomHanksintheMoneyPit · 23/11/2020 11:36

Last year I inherited my late mother's upper floor maisonette, which was in an appalling condition due to my mother being disabled and mentally ill and a hoarder, and a squatter living in the house for five months after her death who trashed the place.

The place is basically structurally sound and does not have any mould or mildew, and no problems with insect or rodent infestation or anything like that. But it's in a terrible condition and has not been touched since the 1970s. The bathroom and kitchen both need to be ripped out and replaced. It probably needs a new boiler. Every room (even the bathroom!) has stained, threadbare carpets. I've pulled some of the carpets back and the floorboards underneath are in reasonable condition albeit would need a fair bit of work (sanding, staining and varnishing) to make them look good. All the rooms except one have ancient tatty wallpaper. The doors, door frames and window frames are filthy and yellowed and would need to be deep-cleaned then re-painted white. The massive garden is a jungle with knee-high brambles and at least two fallen down sheds. The garage is so jammed with stuff you can't even get inside.

I have health problems, do not drive, and it takes me 90 minutes on (free) public transport to get to her house. I don't have anyone to help me and earn a pretty small salary, although I do have a generous cash inheritance which is in an ISA. I generally can only visit her house once a week, twice at most, and spend perhaps 7 hours there. It's taken me a year just to clear out her personal possessions and furniture. On the other hand I'm not bad at DIY/decorating and feel confident in being able to do stuff like prep and paint walls or put down laminate flooring.

I'm now at the point of having to decide when to put it on the market, and how much work to do in advance. People with experience in selling houses, and in particular selling or buying fixer uppers, would you recommend:

  1. Putting it on the market as-is, as a fixer upper, in the knowledge that the sheer look of the place is so off-putting.
  1. Doing superficial DIY work to make it look more appealing, eg. stripping the old wallpaper, giving the walls a fresh coat of paint, cleaning and re-painting the doors, ripping up the carpets and putting some cheap laminate floor tiles down, just so that the property looks clean, neutral, and not totally neglected. But leave the kitchen and bathroom and sell it with the understanding the new owners will need to do some work in installing a new kitchen and bathroom, new boiler, fixing the garden, etc.
  1. Invest the contents of my ISA into paying someone to do it up properly including installing a new kitchen and bathroom, before putting it on the market.

I'm leaning towards #2, but I'm uncertain exactly what I should do, vs what I should leave. I keep thinking of new things that need fixing or replacing, like the garden fence, and going AAARRRRGGGHH! Any advice?

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Crookairroad · 21/02/2021 21:50

Great news!

megletsecond · 21/02/2021 21:55

Glad things are moving forward.

Midlifephoenix · 21/02/2021 21:57

I've bought several probate houses. Empty it (get a house clearance firm) clean it, make the garden visable (cut down the worst so people can clearly see the size) then put it on the market as is. Do not spend any money doing some cheap jobs - total waste.

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Midlifephoenix · 21/02/2021 21:58

Ah just read update- good news!

FlibbertyGiblets · 21/02/2021 22:04

GREAT update, well done you.

EatingAllThePies · 21/02/2021 22:06

So nice to have an update. I wondered how you were getting on!

icelollycraving · 21/02/2021 22:11

Great news!

Abracadabra12345 · 21/02/2021 22:14

@TomHanksintheMoneyPit

UPDATE: I've accepted an offer!!

Thanks again so much for all the help and advice.

Congratulations!
SignsofSpring · 21/02/2021 22:14

Thanks for coming back and updating us, I remember this thread, glad you got good advice and have acted on it!

thenightsky · 21/02/2021 22:20

Fab! I remember you original thread so well. Grin

bigbird1969 · 21/02/2021 22:21

Great news!

Chanandlerbong01 · 21/02/2021 22:22

That’s brilliant news!

SpringisSpinning · 21/02/2021 22:25

Brilliant op!! I had a similar situation... I just couldn't bear the weight of renting out and being down... At this stage.

The money will bring you security what will you do with it?

littlefireseverywhere · 21/02/2021 22:26

We’ll do be, glad it’s all moving forwards for you.

Cccc1111 · 21/02/2021 22:29

@SpringisSpinning The money will bring you security what will you do with it? Wow how nosey!!

horridhorrid · 21/02/2021 22:30

Good news, I'm really pleased for you.

HeronLanyon · 21/02/2021 22:31

Well done op. I inherited a house recently and I too found dealing with stuff kind of helpful Re closure and honouring my lovely old ma. Bloody knackering though. Hope the sale goes smoothly.

ThePluckOfTheCoward · 21/02/2021 22:36

So pleased for you Op, glad all the advice on here helped.

Babamamananarama · 21/02/2021 22:38

Speak to an agent. It depends who your likely buyer is going to be.
If it's a professional who can pay to get in, rip everything out, do it up and flip it/rent it, there's no point touching it. They'll be able to do what you would do quicker and cheaper with a full professional team in who work quickly.

However if your market is more eg young couples needing to see potential in a doer-upper that they might tackle themselves, then option 2 would maybe stop people writing it off before a viewing because the datedness makes it look too big a project. I would leave the garden til lower priority as I think this kind of buyer probably minds less about the garden (or is naive about the effort it will take - I have been this buyer!!)

I wouldn't do 3. Too much time, money and hassle for you and you quite possibly wouldn't get it to a state that buyers would want - that's a job for a professional.

My instinct would probably be 1, as I reckon if there are those kind of buyers in your area they generally can outbid the second kind of buyer if they see profit in a property.

StormyLovesOdd · 21/02/2021 22:39

We were In a very similar position last year when my DH inherited his late mother's house.

The house was in a terrible state due to MIL's mental house issues. We cleared it of all the rubbish and had it valued. All the estate agents told us we would have had to spend £20-30k to improve it significantly and we would probably not have made much more money on the sale. We sold it as it was at auction and were-very happy as it sold for more than estimated.

It's not worth the pain and expense it would cost you to do it up.

oil0W0lio · 21/02/2021 22:41

Congratulations!

Dauphinois · 21/02/2021 22:44

My Mum worked for years as a conveyancing lawyer then an estate agent.

She'd say option 1. Don't waste your time and money trying to do it up, just price it realistically and get rid of it.

BirdHedge · 21/02/2021 22:45

I remember your post the first time OP! How much did you do to it on the end to list it for sale?
Huge well done and selling is absolutely the right thing to do.

underneaththeash · 21/02/2021 22:46

@TomHanksintheMoneyPit where is it? You may get an interested mumsnetter to help you do it up or at least clear it.
I'm near Amersham/HW.

underneaththeash · 21/02/2021 22:47

Sorry I didn't read the post

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