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I don't want any solutions I just want to complain

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Ultimatecougar · 17/11/2020 13:05

I feel rubbish. I had a traumatic separation from my husband and currently going through a messy and expensive divorce. I am resident parent to teenage children. I am single despite trying a lot of dating, but I've been met with a lot of rejection. I don't have a Covid support bubble because I don't have anyone to ask. The past year has been very lonely. My job is in an industry that has been hit hard by Covid but I haven't been made redundant.
Oh and I'm going through menopause.
I am hard as fuck and I never cry.

A few days ago I bumped the car. Not badly, no other car involved, no one hurt. It will likely be expensive, but I can manage.

And I came in and just cried and cried. And couldn't stop. My children tried to comfort me. I've felt shaken up since.

And I feel very tearful still. This isn't usual for me. Can I lay these complaints here please so I can go about my day?

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MrsJonesAndMe · 24/11/2020 06:30

Good point. We split the day in half a few years and then started alternating (but still young back then)

Ultimatecougar · 24/11/2020 10:24

I refuse to alternate with him. So shoot me. When we were together he made a big deal about being miserable at Christmas and topped it by walking out for his mistress on NYE the final year. Like fuck does he deserve a family Christmas now. I know it's unreasonable and I don't care.

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SuperSange · 24/11/2020 10:48

Not unreasonable. Have these. 🍸🍸🍸. I'm hoping my hrt prescription does it's thing next week. Everyone need a cry now and again. DaffodilDaffodil

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Pickypolly · 24/11/2020 10:54

Shit girl! Let the moans and complaints flow freely here, we will listen and nod in agreement in support!!

Meno, bastards left right & centre, bumped car and teens..., holy shitballs you have well earned the right to let it all out!

Ultimatecougar · 24/11/2020 13:49

And another thing. Fucking bubbles. I don't have anyone to bubble with. I feel like I did when we were told to get in pairs for an activity at school and I was the only one left without a partner.

All my friends are bubbled with family members. I have given my bubble rights to my daughter to see her friend, as I can't use it.

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MrsJonesAndMe · 24/11/2020 15:31

Fair enough

Ultimatecougar · 24/11/2020 19:33

I'm just full of rage tbh

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