Broken up with my boyfriend but want him back.

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I’ve recently broken up with my bf. I started seeing him after I got divorced. We had a great year together and then it turned sour. I felt slightly claustrophobic and we were behaving like husband and wife. I wanted a fun relationship without the drama as I’d just got divorced. My ex bf has definitely been the only guy who has truly loved me but that wasn’t enough for me to stay in this relationship. He had quite a lot of baggage I became irritated by him. I broke it off and now I feel I’ve made the biggest mistake. We spoke and it feels like he won’t take me back. I’m completely and utterly heartbroken. Advice please xxx

You mentioned fun without the drama? How was the relationship dramatic?

I’m afraid you will have to accept that he doesn’t want a relationship with you. That boat has sailed. You need to gather your thoughts and move on.

It's just hormones. Back in the olden days when humans were just starting to be he'd already have knocked you up and youd need him to go get you some mammoth for tea no matter what a dick head he was.

Very very hard to override hormones/emotions with real world logic.

Sit with the feeling and wait for it to pass. It will, promise.
These are just fleeting thoughts.