@SerendipityJane
I think many of the recent and current Govt do too.
(IDS in particular, Patel, Gove, Johnson, Cummings, Cameron etc etc)
In my own life, I remember speaking to an ex colleague, (who worked for the Treasury in the 1970's - tho I didn't!) who commented, at the time of Grenfell: 'oh, were they too fat to squeeze out of the windows - working class people do tend to be fat don't they'. I was staggered, that a person could think that way, and be unashamed to express it.
I guess I put it that way as I don't want to think 100% of 'them' do, though I take your well made points - cog dissonance on my part?
Also, I didn't want to be misunderstood that I was implying that @queenofarles child, purely by going to a private school, was going to grow up to have such narrow views as clearly he and she are trying to avoid that which is creditable.
The ONLY way this will ever improve is if we refuse to accept the 'us and them' approach surely? But then that doesn't feed hungry kids.