We have been trying for a baby last one year and then covid messed up everything...having to work in the intensive care I only just found out that I had a miscarriage when I put down my not getting periods for 2 months to stress as preg test was neg when I had checked.To find out I had a miscarriage was a shock and a deeply upsetting news .Me and my husband decided to we shouldn't tell his family as I wasn't comfortable with them passing remarks(they are passive aggressive to me)and my folks live in another country and I didnt want to stress them.So it happens that my husband ended up telling his mom within 3 days and she called me up.Firstly I didnt know she knew so was normal and just saying yeah ..got a but of tummy ache..but felt her questions were double edged....and my husband told me in sign language over the phone that he has told his mother.(He assumed that his mom will help me out emotionally having experienced the same)What my MIL did was ask me how I didnt know I was pregnant, then she tells me its all because of my job(am a doc)and tells me to jus leave it and move in with them(they have been wanting that as his parents and I have been working towards doing the necessary stuff before moving to his parental place).I was indirectly made to feel that I am not taking care of myself and that is why this happened.I was already so upset and this and me feel so guilty.I was annoyed with my husband for doing this to me and he was like everyone has an opinion you should notmind .I had been clear am trying to deal with it and I didnt want any opinion from.anyone.If I wanted comfort I would have confided in my mom anyway.I felt my MIL was more concerned about her son losing the child than my wellbeing.She never empathised.Am I wrong in feeling bad about how she spoke to me?Was it ok for my husband to say tat ?