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Which was the best house you visited as a child and do you live in a house like it know?

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ShrikeAttack · 06/11/2020 06:04

I had three houses I visited as a child that I thought were the best. The apogee of glamour and mystery. And I always coveted their life.

No 1) Indian friends of my parents that owned a 1970s bungalow built on a hill in the Hope Valley. It was the most exotic house I'd ever seen. The best bit was where one stepped downwards, parted a beaded curtain and went down into a 'sort-of' conservatory. That had a pool with a waterfall 'AND TERRAINS LIVED IN THE POOL'. Amazing.

No 2) My violin teacher that lived in a Jacobean manor house. Also in the Hope Valley. So very atmospheric. All worn stone floors, huge fireplaces, linenfold panelling , everything had a patina. I used to pray that every I went to the loo I'd fall through a wardrobe to another world.

No 3) My paternal grandparents had a mid-century split-level house. It had a sunken sitting room with built-in seating and huge picture-windows. My grandfather wore a silk cravat and my grandmother smoked cigarettes with a holder. I felt like I was on a Bond film-set whenever we visited.

I live in a 300 year-old farmhouse on a hill. It's lovely, eclectic and homely but I'm constantly searching for Jacobean manor houses to bugger off to when that children have left home!

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FuglyHouse · 06/11/2020 11:17

My mum's best friend lives in a fairly ordinary 1960s house, but the things I loved about it were the huge windows, and that most of the living room walls and the stairs had built in bookcases absolutely stuffed with books. The first house I bought with DH had huge picture windows and I still miss them, but we have lots of natural light in this house (and a plan to make some of the windows bigger). And I'm working on the book collection!

lastdayofjuly · 06/11/2020 11:25

I was a poor scholarship kid at a private school so visited some very fancy houses in my childhood! Anything with more than one living room and three bedrooms seemed amazing to me, but a couple stick out.

One was an early Georgian mansion in the old style of square house with courtyard in the middle. All the rooms led on to each other so we would run laps of the house through ballrooms, libraries, random snugs etc. It was full of antiques and old tapestries. It was amazing compared to my very ordinary house.

Another was the house of family friends who were architects. They had added a number of modern extensions on to an old farm cottage so the whole house was a higglety-pigglety maze of rooms and corridors and surprises.

Although I don't live in such a house now, I adore houses which are randomly laid out with unexpected rooms and pockets of space.

UndertheCedartree · 06/11/2020 11:26

I used to love my aunty and uncle's house. You entered straight into a massive hall with stone flooring. I felt like I was in a castle! As well as a sitting room and a snug there was a den that was the children's room and we would have great fun in there away from the adults! They also had a games room and a pool so was so much fun there.

Unfortunately I don't live in a dream house like that! I have a 2 bed terrace. It is Victorian, though so nice high celings and fireplaces as well as being massive compared to a 2 bed new build! I very grateful to have it.

Sunshine1235 · 06/11/2020 11:34

My grandparents lived in an old farmhouse (14th century I think). When I was in my Enid blython phase I asked my granny if there were any secret passageways. She took me into one of the bedrooms and we went through a door that I assumed was just a little cupboard room with coats hanging in it and behind the coats was a door leading to a corridor which lead to the locked up back wing of the house, there were two rooms that I never knew existed full of old toys and things from my mums childhood. There was then a staircase which led down to another part of the house and was hidden behind a door I’d never really noticed before. As 7 yr old it was incredibly exciting

ShrikeAttack · 06/11/2020 11:40

That is exciting Sunshine, I always fancied a house with a priest hole.

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schnubbins · 06/11/2020 11:43

I grew up in Africa and had a friend who often invited me to their sprawling house that had every amenity including a massive swimming pool, stables, different gardens incl . a rose garden.The funny thing was that now looking back her parents were never there just the servants.We were picked up by a chauffeur and driven home.We then sat down at the massive dining room table and she always told me 'you can order what you want for lunch'.She then rang a little bell on the table and we ordered massive bowls of ice cream and all sorts of goodies .We were only about seven years old .

ShrikeAttack · 08/11/2020 22:52

I was enjoying everyone's comments but its died a death so I'm giving this thread a shameless bump!

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PoltergeistPirates · 09/11/2020 11:19

My great-great-grandmother lived in a fabulous house in Cusop, near Hay-On-Wye.

When she died she left it to my great-grandmother, and subsequently it went to my great-aunt, who didn’t actually live there. There was a couple who lived close by who kept it clean/maintained.

My mum and her brothers had lots of childhood holidays there, which meant getting the train from London, one leg of the trip being on a steam train. It was a totally different world from their lives in polluted 1950s Chelsea.

We lived in a cheaply-built tall, thin, not-quite-big-enough house on an estate built in 1970, in the Midlands. The location meant it was very easy for Dad to take Mum and us to the Cusop house and leave us for a few days while he worked.

The big old house was set high above the road, backing onto another house, in steep gardens, with terraces, woods, and a summer house.

There were four bedrooms (two in the attic), each with its own sink, except the one you had to go through to get to the bathroom.

Downstairs was kitchen, dining room with fireplace, and a lovely sunny sitting room with yellow bucket chairs. (I presume this room also had a fireplace, but I can’t remember).

There was also an outside loo, which Mum said was handy if she was working in the garden. (I personally can’t remember the loo situation at all, but there was one in the house as well.)

Across the lane below the house, was the garage, and then a rickety little wooden bridge that went across the brook, and the border, into the Welsh garden.

The brook was ace, and we spent a lot of time paddling in it.

Sometimes Granny would bring our cousins up from London, which was TERRIBLY EXCITING. They were exotic, like us but different, and with funny accents.

The kitchen smelt of proper fairy liquid (we had the cheap crap at home). Granny’s hot chocolate was different too, and better, but took some getting used to. Mum’s version was much weaker, with far too much sugar added!

We would go for walks up the dingle, in search of fortune under the Money Tree. There were serious recriminations if someone forgot to sprinkle a few coins beforehand!

Of course there were lots of walks across the fields into Hay, which was the most magical little place, for various supplies, toys/games/activities etc.

Also Dad drove us up into the Black Mountains. One Easter it was warm but there were still pockets of snow to play in, which immense fun.

Sadly, one winter the frozen pipes burst, making a bit of an expensive mess, so great-aunt decided she would have to sell the house. Our final trip was in the autumn of 1979. Dad took some great pix of all the cousins together on the wooden bridge. We still miss going there! Such a special place.

I now rent a very tatty ex-council flat up north. I’m not even sure why anymore.

LadyofMisrule · 09/11/2020 12:28

I loved my friend's house. Many years later, we bought it. I love it even more now.

Witchend · 09/11/2020 13:09
  1. My grandparents. I believe my grandad designed it himself. It had a big staircase from the hall that split into two half way up. There were lots of little rooms and a feeling of being able to get lost. There was a coal bunker out the back, and a passageway from the front to the back garden, which felt huge to me. It was the first place I ever saw a double garage too. I have ambitions to buy it back one day, although all I really know about it is it's in Morley! They moved when I was about 6yo.
  1. Totally different end of the scale. In the village I grew up there was an old cottage. When I was reception I went to play afterschool with the girl who lived there. We ran round the woods full of bluebells (my memory says it was called Bluebell Cottage, but that may have been my imagination). The house was old, I don't think it had electricity (this was 80s) and we pulled water from the well in the garden (I'm not sure if that was necessary or something we thought was fun) and it was really like a house in a fairy tale or at least an Enid Blyton adventure.
It was knocked down to give way to the bypass, but I think it was in a shocking state and probably condemned when I visited. As a child though it was a dream house!
JoJoSM2 · 09/11/2020 13:58

As a child, I loved my grandparents’ cavernous attic with lots of treasures and my aunt’s riverside apartment with spectacular panoramic views. I really aspired to the latter in my 20’s but it didn’t work out. As a teen, I got to live in/visit lots of amazing homes, anything from cool apartments, small cottages to stately homes. I was often impressed but not necessarily inspired. My own preference is for a large but modern and comfortable place where you do get the space but still small enough for a cleaner or gardener to only be needed one day a week so it’s still quite a private space.

flapjackfairy · 09/11/2020 14:02

@PoltergeistPirates
It sounds wonderful
Such lovely memories to have .
I felt like that about my grandparents house. It was like an idyllic dream to me because it was different from our modern house but mostly because of my wonderful grandmother who I adored. I miss her still. She made every stay a huge adventure and spoilt us rotten .

Handsnotwands · 09/11/2020 14:04

My friend lived on what i now know to be a notorious, rough, deprived estate. she lived with her mum, who my mother has since said was very very young, which i, of course, didn't notice as a child, and her aunt, the mother's sister. i remember it being warm and fun and happy and cozy, i loved it at her house. to me as a child that was the best place ever

IceCreamAndCandyfloss · 09/11/2020 14:15

Not particularly the actual house but the feel of it stayed with me, my best friends was always allowed to have guests over, there was always plenty to do, the adults were happy to spend time doing activities and there was always lovely food. A very sharp contrast to what u was used too and it was something I wanted mine to have.

I did love a bungalow when younger, was fascinated you could vacuum the whole house from literally one plug lol. My dreams were obviously small Grin

PoltergeistPirates · 09/11/2020 14:33

flapjackfairy

Every few years or so I have to go back there for a nosy!

“Nostalgia ain’t what it used to be,” as Great-aunt used to say.

She and Granny (they were SILs) were actually both a bit terrifying, but we loved them anyway!

ShrikeAttack · 11/11/2020 04:08

Poltergeist I know Cusop and Dulas Brook very well! I lived a couple of miles up the road for about ten years!

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HerRoyalNotness · 11/11/2020 04:30

The one that sticks in my mind was an 1800s villa but probably wasn’t. It had an attic that was the playroom and I remember a giant trunk full of dressing up clothes and lots of wonderful toys. We didn’t have much like that at our house.

My friends house, a 1930s bungalow type was always restful and smelled really lovely. There was a quiet hush over it.

I live in a 14yo mass marketed build with thin walls and a not much character. I’d love an older house, but not too old that it sucks all of our disposable income

PhilCornwall1 · 11/11/2020 04:56

When I was about 6, I went with my dad to his friends house he used to sail and race with (yacht racing), this blokes house was absolutely bloody massive and I don't mean massive just because I was young. Gated, in its own grounds, with a private beach thrown in.

We lived in a nice, fairly big house, but can remember saying to my dad, "why don't we have a big house like that?", dad replied "because I'm not a multimillionaire". Well, I didn't know what that was at 6!

Turns out this chap was absolutely minted, the house sold a few years ago for 6 million quid. Yep, I still think it's massive now!!

All the cars he drove were shit heaps though, dads was better than his!! 🤣

vipersinc · 11/11/2020 04:56

A five storey house in a small hamlet with sea views and floor to ceiling windows. I used to love visiting the friend who lived there as our view was of a car park.

PoltergeistPirates · 11/11/2020 10:46

ShrikeAttack

Really, wow! It is so lovely round there. My mum and I reminisce about it a lot.

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