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Hand hold please, my dear dad has died

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Snuzzle · 25/10/2020 08:53

Feeling broken and so lost. I live 300 miles away and am alone with DD 6 so can’t travel there. DP is in Wales with his elderly dad so can’t even come home.
We spent so many years not being very close but re connected when my DD was born. Feel like I’ve missed out on so much time with him.
Have to try and explain it to DD who adores him. We’ve been explaining to her how ill he’s been but I don’t think it’s really sunk in with her and she’s going to be devastated.
It’s looking likely that my area will move to tier 3 soon as well so don’t know if I’ll even be able to go to his funeral.
Don’t see any way through this pain right now.

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aq1995xxx · 25/10/2020 08:58

So sorry for your lost, OP. Thanks

Grieving is a deep pain and you will be going through motions of it at the moment. Please be extra kind to yourself as you try and get through these hard times. I'm so sorry you're hurting.

You are supported and loved and the pain will eventually decrease/subside. Death is never an easy matter to deal with.

Sending you hugs Daffodil

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Lisette1940 · 25/10/2020 09:02

snuzzle I'm so very sorry. Take care of yourself at this time 💐

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mrswhiplington · 25/10/2020 10:14

So sorry to hear of your loss.Flowers

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BaldAndWild · 25/10/2020 10:38

I'm so sorry for your loss, OP, big virtual hug

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