I feel very lucky to have a job that hasn't been impacted by Covid, and appreciate that I'm in a much more fortunate position than many at present. My employer offers a pretty much guaranteed payrise every year that isnt quite at inflationary levels, but not too far off. The next time this happens it will just tip me over the £50k point and I will lose my child benefit- as a single parent of 3dc this pays for the breakfast club and after school club that allows me to work.
I am losing sleep over what to do when the time comes in March and my boss hands me a letter with details of a pay increase that I can't afford. It will mean an extra £30 ish in my pay every month after tax but lose me £180 in Child benefit.
I don't know what to do, I am so worried that I can't think properly :(