I’m living with someone I’ve had a baby with after knowing her only a couple of months. It’s going ok, son 3 months now. But I can’t get my ex out of my head. We broke up a year before I met my current partner and I saw her recently in tescos, sounds insane I know but I have looked her up and she’s single, living back in our town again. I never forgot her. I don’t want to lose contact with my son but this relationship with my gf is only here because of him. In time will the focus on my son make me forget the woman I want to be with? I try and immerse myself in all of that and mostly it is easy to do as it’s all full on at the moment but in the back of my mind I am thinking of her. I would never do anything behind my gf’s back and she knows this is a trial between us, both of us know that. I am so confused. If I carry on will these feelings go? I’m trying to focus as much as I can on him.