I'm due an ablation too. Having NovaSure but even so I am definitely NovaUnsure.
It's true that my blood loss - which only happens for 2 months of my cycle - has caused pernicious anaemia that I can't shift but even so I am, frankly, terrified of the procedure.
Call me a wimp or unfeminist but I want DH with me. Neither of us have family other than our adult DCs, so kids aside we only really have each other. Obviously me & DH function just fine as separate entities but when there's any emotional support needed we're all that each other has and we stick like glue.
Reading the posts about the pain people were in post op, thinking about that and being alone? Nope. No thanks.
I've paid for private, I saw a female gynae and, sorry to disappoint folks but she is insistently pushing me to have a mirena. I'm pushing against it. I can't see that I'll need it? I don't want it. I've made that clear now.
The cynic in me wonders whether they push a mirena because it helps to mitigate the side effects if the ablation fails?
I have signed on the dotted line for the procedure but I'm still not sure.
Someone please pose the questions I should be asking myself? And the gynae?