My DF had a stroke on Friday, he is still waiting in an NHS hospital for an operation to drill holes in his skull to relieve the pressure. He has been ready to go for surgery 4 times and each time they dont go ahead because of other more urgent cases coming in (which is understandable). He is really not coping well with being in hospital on a ward with very ill people, the constant on again off again and the general stress is actually causing him more distress than the initial stroke. He is in the fortunate position where he could afford to pay privately but the 2 local private hospitals we have contacted have both said they will not accept patients from NHS hospitals and the NHS hospital have said it would be very unwise to discharge himself. So we are kind of stuck aand its an area none of us know anything about. Anyone any experience or advice?