What the hellllllll??

[Justwingingmotherhood]

So here me out okay? This is going to sound awful and I promise I WILL NEVER ACT ON THIS. But.. I have a really bad crush on a dad at my daughters nursery. Everytime I think about him I get butterflies! He walks passed me and my stomach flips! What the hell is this?!!! I had a sex dream about him last week and since then my crush has rocketed! I'm a grown woman in a relationship (although abusive) and so is he. I need to get a grip. I think I'm losing my mind!

You're not losing your mind, it's perfectly natural. Enjoy the buzz but DO NOT ACT ON IT.

Sign you want to leave abuser ?

Your mind is reminding you what love and attraction are and that you're still capable of such things.

Just not with your current partner.

It's literally because you're with an abuser and your subconscious has had enough OP. It's going to harass you until you get rid.

Thanks for non judgemental comments. Deep down I knew it was a sign about my own relationship x

I agree , it's perfectly normal to have a crush, I had one on work mate for ages .
Don't act on it , it would end up in tears but get away from your abusive relationship so that in time you can find new love

So here me out okay? are you 16?

You've been watching too many American dramas.

😉 It's the sex dream. It squews how you see things. 😊 Perfectly rational friendship + sex dream = Messes with your head.
Enjoy your little fantasy but don't do anything about it.

Been there, and it usually happens when DH is being a complete arsehole.

It might not be easy, but yes, get out of the abusive relationship, and take time to recover. I'd agree it's a sign you need to leave.

@CovidStoleTheRainbow

So here me out okay? are you 16?

You've been watching too many American dramas.

There is always one idiot! As if it bothered you enough to be a pathetic troll. It's a popular saying where I'm from. Are you 12?

I will NEVER EVER act on it. It would indeed end in tears and embarrassment . Thanks for all the HELPFUL comments xx

the crush aside, please look to leave your current relationship.

Life is too short to be unhappy, and there is a lot of help out there to leave abusive relationships.

@CovidStoleTheRainbow

So here me out okay? are you 16?

You've been watching too many American dramas.

Are you a dick head?

You need to leave the abusive partner and have time on your own, but I think you know that. Lots of good advice on here about leaving.

@user43 brilliant 😂😂

You're not dead! Perfectly normal infatuations lol - as for your current partner, if he's abusive then perhaps this is a message that you're worth more than he's giving you

Give that a good thought, hopefully you'll find the courage to leave him, then find yourself, then find a good man
Good luck 😉

@custardbear such a lovely message. Your totally right, thank you x