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Dress size limit?

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SuckingDownDarjeeling · 02/10/2020 22:31

I've always wondered if I could physically have ever been a 'size zero'. Because I have fairly wide hips, even at my slimmest I'm not a wisp. I've dieted down to a size 8 in the past, and I wondered if size 6 or below was even technically achievable for me. I never tried to get there because I really didn't want to diet any more after that. (I have to do it all again now anyway though, I let myself go after pregnancy Blush).

Can a person's bone structure and build potentially limit how small their dress size could ever be? Or with enough starvation dieting, can anybody and everybody be a size zero. Whatever one of those is. I've never met one in real life 🦄

I understand some of the responses here might tell me to google it, but I tried and I'm not great at wording effective search terms. I'm interested to hear people's opinions and experiences, too.

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BoudiccasBoudoir · 02/10/2020 23:34

I am now a 16 on bottom 14 on top. You'd never know my rib cage is wider than my hips when it's just skin and bones

Namechange313 · 02/10/2020 23:46

I’ve often thought the same OP!

At my slimmest (8st 11lb at 5ft 7in) I still couldn’t fit in anything below a 10, it’s like my hips are a specific width apart and obviously I can’t push them together.

When I was 18/19 it used to bother me and I dieted hard to try fit into this magical size 8 and I physically couldn’t do it

feelingverylazytoday · 02/10/2020 23:47

The smallest size I've been is an old size 10, so more like a size 6 now. I was underweight at the time though. It's my waistline that did me in though, I don't have a very defined waist and clothes used to be cut very tight on the waist.
My daughter is really tiny, she still fits into some of her age 11-12 clothes, though she's an adult. Most women's clothes are too big for her.

MrsCatE · 02/10/2020 23:48

I am small; smaller than I would like because I am / have been very ill.

I've lost count of times when came across people I haven't seen for ages exclaim "OMG! You're so tiny!" or words to that effect. Bit dampened when say yes, that's what chronic illness will do but yey!! I'm a UK size 6 / 8!!!

PerfidiousAlbion · 02/10/2020 23:49

Frame size has a huge impact on how small you can be.

A large frame - broad shoulders, ribcage, hips - will mean that no amount of dieting - safely - will get you to a size 4/6.

At my lowest weight, I had a BMI of 19 and measured 35-26-35 but I looked like a starved greyhound. My friend however who was the same height but small boned looked looked lovely and curvy with those measurements due to having a completely different body composition to me.

Ive long since made my peace with the fact that I’ll never be a waif. The size 8 feet ruin it anyway.

SunshineThelma · 02/10/2020 23:49

I'm a substantial woman. My brother and uncle are rugby players and I share some of the features of that kind of build (broad, size 8 feet, fairly tall). At my absolute slimmest as an adult, I couldn't fit into a 12 - my shoulders are definitely the sticking point. maybe my bones could fit in a 10/12, but there's no way on earth this frame would make it into a 4. Nor would I want to!

QueenOllie · 02/10/2020 23:50

I think it's limited
My friend is 5ft 5 and a size 6 and has a teeny frame, very petite
I'm 5ft 10 and look like I should be power lifting. Broad shoulders and hips, big feet/hands/wrists and even age 13 I can't remember being smaller than a size 10-12

Pinkchocolate · 02/10/2020 23:52

I have quite broad shoulders and am comfortable at a size 12 (Uk). At my thinnest I have been a small 10 but I couldn’t get any smaller. Even ill, on a drip unable to keep any food down for months I have never been smaller than a 10. I think some of us are just built bigger than others. I have friends who are tiny and healthy.

Hardbackwriter · 02/10/2020 23:55

Definitely there's a limit for everyone (though some people's will be very small). People talk about 'size zero' models but quite often they will actually be a 6 or an 8, but they're 5'11 so that is incredibly thin. People generally tend to forget how much of a difference height and broader bone structure make to both weight and size; I see quite a few women on MN going on about being a size 8 or 10 as a mark of their incredible worth and self-restraint compared to all the fatties, by which they mean anyone over size 12, but then they happen to mention they're 5'1...

HowFastIsTooFast · 02/10/2020 23:57

I think you're right OP. I have 3 friends that are a UK 4-6 and they are all so much more slight of build than I (varying from an 8 to a 12) could ever be. Even comparing wrists where there's little to no fat on me, mine are about a third wider than theirs are.

Lineofconcepcion · 02/10/2020 23:59

Clothes sizes now are vanity sizes. I would have been a size 4 in today's measurements in the 70s but current sizes are at least 2 to 3 sizes larger. In today's sizes I would be an 8 to 10.

istherelifeafter40 · 03/10/2020 00:39

I am over 180 cm in height and I would not have an ability to walk, balance and hold myself upright if I were to be as narrow as to fit into size 4. Same with the length of feet.

I suspect it would also be very disproportionate. - long legs and arms sticking of a tiny frame. I was approached for modelling at 16, I weighted 10 kg less than now and I look very thin now (size 12). But I was 8-10 then, never close to 4.

Valkadin · 03/10/2020 00:53

I have been that size but my ethnicity is mixed and I do have a small ,
bone structure, size 3.5 feet. Until I had my dc I had a 23.5 to 24 inch waist. I wonder what the average hip width is minus any flesh. Post menopause I’m around 27 ish inches.

SuckingDownDarjeeling · 03/10/2020 00:54

@PerfidiousAlbion Shock I have size 8 feet too!! To me , that gives a lot more merit to the idea that bone structure will always play a role.

Would you like to start a size 8 feet support group with me? Grin

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PyongyangKipperbang · 03/10/2020 01:21

I can be a 10 but no smaller.

I have an hourglass figure so a v small waist but bony and bigger hips, ribs and shoulders,

I was verging on an 8 when I was ill and looked skeletal, my eyes especially were sunken and the eyeballs popping out.

PyongyangKipperbang · 03/10/2020 01:22

I am 5/6

DaisyDreaming · 03/10/2020 03:33

I always amazed at how small extremely underweight people are. I don’t know how all their organs fit in. It’s an interesting question, I guess it also depends on the fit and whether there’s some stretch when getting it over wider bone part

DocusDiplo · 03/10/2020 08:02

I really want to nominate this for the silliest thread ever, and thats saying something as i say some really daft things!

Thread Q: Do some people have smaller bome structures than others?
OR
If I state a random size of clothing, will some people not be able to fit into it?

Sorry OP, its just a bit of a funny thread Grin

Whatadoa · 03/10/2020 09:43

OP I’ve always been very slim. People comment that i need to eat more all the time even though I eat a LOT and no less than the average person my size.

I look slim and I am slim. I struggle to put on weight.

I have never ever fitted into a size 0, or even a size 4. And I’m 8 stone and 5 foot 8!

SuckingDownDarjeeling · 03/10/2020 11:03

@DocusDiplo I tend to think of stupid questions, especially at night time Grin

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SuckingDownDarjeeling · 03/10/2020 11:13

I'm actually hugely relieved that so many people have shared their stories to confirm that you can be as slim as ever and still not fit into a size 4.

Hopefully, some people will find this thread after googling and give themselves a break! I've seen some 'thinspiration' stuff online before, it's scary. If I'd seen these opinions years ago when I was dieting, I definitely would have given myself a break. Because at the time I was aspiring towards some very unrealistic goals and it wasn't healthy at all.

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Em3978 · 03/10/2020 11:46

@Namechange313

I’ve often thought the same OP!

At my slimmest (8st 11lb at 5ft 7in) I still couldn’t fit in anything below a 10, it’s like my hips are a specific width apart and obviously I can’t push them together.

When I was 18/19 it used to bother me and I dieted hard to try fit into this magical size 8 and I physically couldn’t do it

I'm also 5ft 7in and in my late teens I was 8st (eating like a horse but my metabolism was crazy at the time - wish it was more like that now) Back then I couldn't fit in a size 10, 12 was it, but 12 was baggy. My hips and my shoulders won't fit in a 1990's size 10.
EveryPlanetHasAYorkshire · 03/10/2020 12:00

Officially size 0 = UK size 4 but American sizes are a lot more generous than UK sizes. So in reality a size 0 is more equal to a UK 6 or an 8.

EveryPlanetHasAYorkshire · 03/10/2020 12:01

Also I wish British people would stop calling it size 0.

Sexnotgender · 03/10/2020 12:04

I think frame and height are deciding factors.

My daughter is nearly 17 and a size 4/6, she’s only 4ft 7 though and unlikely to grow more. She would struggle to get above a size 8 I reckon.

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