Advice on how to not murder my ex-h

[JustOneLastThing]

Who was supposed to drop the last of my stuff off last month, and forgot. Arranged another date for next week, and today got a message telling me he was taking it to the tip today as it has taken too long to sort out if I couldn't pick it up in an hour.
Would I be reasonable to bury him under the patio for being a twat?
(if anyone has any practical advice also appreciated)

Its your stuff, go and pick it up?

It's long and complicated but he isn't keen on me collecting it as his gf is convinced I want to hop into bed with him . I offered to go tomorrow but he said he would leave it on the street and go out rather than upsetting her. Would rather fuck a pig btw

@PolPotNoodle I was unable to collect in the timeframe specified, was collecting ds from school at the time, and I try to protect him from ex-h's madness wherever possible.

There you go, do that then. Arrange a time for him to put it out and be waiting down the road so you can pick it up straight away. All sorted without any murder or beastiality.

@PolPotNoodle oh, he won't specify a time, that would be too simple. I am presumably expected to wait it out until it appears.

Just go and collect your stuff. Who cares what he or his girlfriend would prefer. It sounds like both of you need to grow up.

I do enjoy how mn has become a place to berate those going through some shit in their lives.
I was hoping to vent a little on here to relieve some tension rather than tell ex-h I think he's acting like a complete cunt.
Anyway, back to normal life.

Whats left to collect?

Would it be easier to just rebuy some new shit?

How long you been divorced for?

Sometimes you just got to think fuck it, is it worth it?

Hope you get it sorted asap.

He is a cunt.

Do you have a family member or friend who could rock up to collect for you? I wouod do this for a friend.

Got an apology as per fucking usual but have actually told him (politely) that I don't have to accept such behaviour and that I only want to communicate about DS in the future. He was mollified and extremely sorry but I really have reached the limits of what bollocks he is doling out this week.

My ex has been off this weekend yet has left me to do all childcare whilst he gets tattoos and breaks covid rules. Exes are shite

What is there left?

After this amount of time, I'd be tempted to just write it off. Too much hassle.

@vanillandhoney none. Got it all now, and glad to have sorted it out. Lockdown really did cause problems getting my stuff out of the house, in part because where the house is was part of an enhanced lockdown area.