Just coming back to this thread @cuddlymunchkin sorry to delay my reply, I forgot I had asked this! 
I see you are a little bit ahead still. I expect many of us have rebound relationships. Very cool to have a bit of time alone. Great you have current man. Interested to know how your move goes next year, sounds exciting!
How about you Flowers? The fact you ask about regrets suggests you have some?
I'm not sure... Like you, the problems we had were never going to go away. He told me at the time that they were not enough for divorce, but I could see ahead in a different way.
Current partner makes me happy but creates a different sort of anxiety. I'm wondering whether I am doomed to never be 100% happy in a relationship - just 80% ish.
Things I miss from my marriage:
Big house in beautiful area
Emotional "balance". Not necessarily stability, but more like a sort of indifference.
Same level of old-fashionedness about marriage.
Commitment to family (i.e. our children) by ex.
Things I like about new life:
Partner is a do-er and we travel and eat out
Interesting partner has led me to trying new things, and conquering fears
On the whole generous partner
He is very non-conformist, though, and I think I miss the shell of conventional marriage sometimes. I'm coming to terms with a kind of grief. I don't think I can link myself to current partner financially, and I don't know if I could ever marry him. On some level, it means saying goodbye to a certain life. But I have to be careful not to wear rose-tinted specs about my marriage. He might have been a reliable person, but he didn't always show this at home, and we often played second fiddle to his reliability at work.
Thanks for making me think about this!