After long conversations and lack of interest form both sides we've decided on "semi eloping". We'll have our kids with us and it's not like we're not telling anyone, but we won't have any reception nor send invitations. Our families are aware we're getting married and we've even told them of our date but doubt they'll remember. So do we casually remind them or simply let it be? We just can't make ourselves spend ££ on people who are very ambivalent about the whole thing, who most likely won't understand the concept l, and that we don't even know if we'll be able to invite due to Covid. Wedding is in April next year.