In a nutshell, I dated someone and ended things a year ago. We started talking in January and got much closer, met a few times, kissed etc. Then by March it turns out his one night stand of six months prior was about to have his baby. He carried on seeing me for a few weeks after he found out, unbeknown to me, and during this time he became aggressive and angry and questioned me about why we broke up, saying actually he wasn’t sure he wanted to be with me now, on reflection I had messed him about and he’d moved on with life and that I should now have to accept the regret of having ended things with him a year back. Also told me I wouldn’t find anyone better and it was obvious that was clear to me now and tough luck. Of course once I found out (on social media !!!) that he was expecting this baby in a matter of weeks, I confronted him and he said he had told me he was having doubts since we rekindled things in January... which was a load of shit as I know the date he found out about the pregnancy (yes I checked his phone) and it was end of March when he started getting nasty with me. Before then he had been totally into us getting back together. It seems this woman hadn’t told him about the baby until the last minute as she wasnt sure it was his.
Anyway, they’ve since moved in together and I’ve seen photos online (should have blocked him sooner). I feel cut up about it all as his words have stuck with me that maybe he was the one for me and I messed it up by ending things the first time round?! It also makes me feel sick that he gets this happy ending after having lied to me earlier this year when I was putting my all into things with him. Now he gets a ready made family. I know I sound bitter.
Argh just wanted to talk it through I suppose... what if he was the one that got away?