Hi
Im so sad right now. I just found my boyfriend of 17 years has been on a dating site. Several to be exact. But i only found messages on one.
He's created a profile even put a picture up of himself. His emails confirm this. I went to the site and typed his details and saw hes been talking to a girl on there for at least 2 months.
I cant believe he has done this as our son died in March. And he has never really supported me through it. Just blanks me and goes the pub and refuses to talk. I feel invisible. And when i tell him this he says all i do is argue. I dont have any intention of arguing he Just gets easily angered and bad tempered to the point he storms off out over silly things. Its like walking on egg shells around him.
He has told this woman he loves her to bits, see's a future with her, that he wants to meet her to get the ball rolling and he even calls her his girlfriend. He has given her his phone number and had said he doesnt want to lose her and that she is the only girl he has eyes for.
I dont think they have met. Because shes actually a paid person on the site. He obviously was clueless. I have done my research and reviews confirm the site to be a scam.
Women on there never meet up or give out their numbers they just get men to buy coins on the site in order to send messages.
My boyfriend has been spending 250 a month talking to her. The money took from our joint account.
What hurts the most his him still denying it when i showed him the bank statements.
Not showed him the messages yet.
It hurts like hell he has told her "i would love to have kids with you. You would make a great mum" when we have just lost our son in March.
On one of the sites he joined a month after our son died.
Got a feeling hes going to get angry if i confront him. Storm out and i wont answer anything... just like he normally doesnt when i try to talk about stuff bothering me.
What would you do in this situation? How would you confront him?