DP wants intimacy when I’m not in the mood.

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I’ve been very stressed these last few months and wanting/giving DTD has gone to the bottom of my list. It doesn’t help that we’re both still at home during the day and my DP has turned back into a teenager as he seems to be horny all the time: “what are we doing for lunch?”
“Well I’ve got a hard on”.

We do DTD a couple of times a week at least but sometimes it’s not been that much. He’s asked that maybe when I’m not feeling it that ‘I help him in other ways’ of either kissing/talking dirty while he’s masturbating or giving him a hand job from time to time.

I don’t want to make this into an AIBU as he is a really great DP but I am wondering if I’m one of the only girlfriends who sends their partner into the bedroom alone.

He sounds like a sex pest
Extremely unattractive

Yes send him into the bedroom alone. You don’t owe him sex in any form You’re not there for his entertainment
Yuk.

Oh god. He expects you to do that when you don't want to? What a horrible creep.

That is gross and so disrespectful
You do not owe him any "favours".
What a creep .

Expecting and nagging for sex when the other person isn't in the mood is sexual coercion and abuse.

Someone who oscillates between "make me a sandwich" and "give me a shag" is not a great loving respectful partner. They are a creepy misogynist. Some days I seriously wonder how much lower male behaviour has to sink before women finally stop referring to them as "great partners/dads" when they are clearly displaying the most repulsive and unreasonable forms of behaviour. Would you ever coerce or manipulate your dp into sex against his wishes? Would that be a loving respectful action on your part? Of course it wouldn't. So why is your bar so low for how you let your partner treat you?